Butrflynet
I see Butrflynet is recovering nicely from her surgery and able to join us in the fray.
Dyslexia and Diane are my dear friends---now and forever. Friends choose to be friends because they like and enjoy each other's company.
I've tried to smooth the public discourse on this thread with my stupid sense of humor but failed. Now I feel compelled to comment.
I'm deeply saddened and disappointed by Asherman's public remarks. Sad because sometimes people we think we know well change, often for reasons we don't understand. Asherman has been very kind to me since and before I moved to Albuquerque and I always considered him to be my friend even though our political and social beliefs were wide apart. I always enjoyed his art, his writing, his stories, and holiday dinners in his beautiful home. I've had many enjoyable hours in his company. I could always count on him if I needed help.
I know the reason for Asherman's hard feelings. I think they are unfounded and based on unrealized expectations. I'm very disappointed by the behavior of someone I had considered a friend. Asherman well knows of what I speak but I won't embarrass him by describing the events and context in a public forum. Asherman chose to vent his feelings in a public forum. I choose not to, and lament the loss of a friend. I do know this. A friend does not behave toward a friend in such an uncouth manner, especially when using the friend as a messenger.
And one does not attack another person in public because his social expectations were not realized as determined by the guests, not the hosts. Hosts are not responsible for expectations, especially those that are not known.
I hope this will drop the curtain on this sad event and return us to A2K's silliness.
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