@girlfriend,
Just saw your post. Maybe I'm too late to respond. If you are still looking for a trike, here's my opinion, for what it's worth. - The new HD trikes based on the Ultra Classic are actualy Lehman built. I too am not overly impressed with the Lehman conversions, but at least there would be some warranty if you bought new from HD. Just bring an armored car full of cash since they are over $30k!!!
Being an engineer, I may be overly critical of the Lehman design, especially since I've never owned one. But for my money, I would go for a professionally built trike with the Frankenstein rear end. Fiberglass/esthetic treatments are totally up to personal taste so no need to comment on them.