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Tue 23 May, 2006 01:54 am
Once ,I had a happy family.Father and mother didn't quarrel with each other .But after my sister and brother were born,they quarreled a lot.I don't know what should I do when they quarreled.Iremembered that when I first saw they quarreled ,I felt very sad .But they quarreled too often that I found myself became a cold girl,I always have no feeling in my heart . One day ,my classmates are talking about the family .I admire them very much.Then one of them asked me that how about my family.Suddenly,I have nothing to say.I want to know who had made the tragedy?And what should I do?Can you tell me?
Hello xiaoxiangzi and welcome to A2K.
I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this. Your parents need to know how difficult it is for you to see them argue.
Is there someone you can talk to? A relative? Someone at school - a teacher or a counselor?
Can you tell us a little more about yourself: where you are from and how old you are?
It would be good to know how old you are so we can understand more.
I think parents need to understand that when one parent is angry with the other, the child see's it as the parent being angry with the child(as we are made up of 1 half of each parent)
Im 30 and its still upsets me alot when my parents argue.
I hope we can help.
I suggest getting a tattoo and a belly-button piercing. Nothing unites parents like irretrievable skin marking or the thought that their daughter might become a stripper.
On one hand Balcksmithin, you woryy me.But on the other its a fair point.
Obviously parents have serious things to argue about like money but if a kid got a tattoo, piercing, it could put things into perspective for them.
Trust me, there's a method to my madness!
I never argue with a guy who has a hammer.
Especially a man with a hammer that's pounding himself on the head....
Ever had to deal with a recalcitrant 16 year old? Pounding yourself on the head with a hammer is a lot less trouble and produces better results.