What should I do ?

Hello xiaoxiangzi and welcome to A2K.

I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this. Your parents need to know how difficult it is for you to see them argue.

Is there someone you can talk to? A relative? Someone at school - a teacher or a counselor?

Can you tell us a little more about yourself: where you are from and how old you are?

It would be good to know how old you are so we can understand more.

I think parents need to understand that when one parent is angry with the other, the child see's it as the parent being angry with the child(as we are made up of 1 half of each parent)
Im 30 and its still upsets me alot when my parents argue.

I hope we can help.

I suggest getting a tattoo and a belly-button piercing. Nothing unites parents like irretrievable skin marking or the thought that their daughter might become a stripper.

On one hand Balcksmithin, you woryy me.But on the other its a fair point.
Obviously parents have serious things to argue about like money but if a kid got a tattoo, piercing, it could put things into perspective for them.

Trust me, there's a method to my madness!

I never argue with a guy who has a hammer.

Especially a man with a hammer that's pounding himself on the head....

Ever had to deal with a recalcitrant 16 year old? Pounding yourself on the head with a hammer is a lot less trouble and produces better results.

something about myself
I was a girl and 19 old. I home locate at the foot of a famous mountain, TaiHang in He Nan province. I have a very big family: father, mother, my younger sister, my twin brothers and I. When I was a child, some guys laughed at me that our family had so many children. From then on, I seldom talk about my family in front of others because I feel ashamed .I know that to have so many children is not my fault, but, what I can do beside I keep silent. I admire my roommates very much, because every times when she talks about her family, there would be a very happy sign on her face. I hope I can have a family like her, but nothing I can do to change my situation. Now, I am a freshman in a collage .A boy fell in love with me, so I became his girlfriend. I told him that doesn't do something to me that I could imagine of my father. Then he asked me that if I keep a relationship with a boy so early just want to find something so called "father's love", I replied him quickly ?'yes'. I always worried about my marriage in the future, will it like my parents'. If so, I would choose a single life.