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Beginner questions on New York City

 
 
TA
 
Reply Sun 7 May, 2006 03:39 am
Hi there

I reckon there are some threads about NYC already but since none of them seem to deal with "beginner questions" I figure I'd better open a new one.

I love big cities. I can walk hour after hour in say Paris, London, Barcelona, Frankfurt etc. and just "inhale" the atmosphere. Now I'm tinkering with the idea of my second trip to the US and visiting New York City. But there are quite a few things which I don't know. Maybe you could tell me about them.

1. My preferred way of lodging is to rent an apartment for one or two weeks and buy my food in stores like the locals do. Is this possible in NYC? Where can I find these offers then?
If I need to go to a hotel, which ones would you recommend if the Ritz is not an option? I have no problem with just the basics but I also don't want to experience roaches, non working toilets etc. Wink Oh yes, I'd also like a safe neighborhood. If I want to get shot I can have this here, too.

2. What areas of the city should better be avoided? I will most likely travel alone and carry a camera. Would this make me an easy target somewhere in NYC?

3. I understand I better not rent a car but should use the metro and cabs. How do I recognize if a cab driver is cheating me with regard to the fare? Is it possible at all if you've never driven yourself in that city?

4. Is it OK to ignore beggars or do I need to equip myself with a lot of change to avoid being harassed by them? The beggars here only say nasty things to you if you avoid them. Not sure how far they'd go in NYC...

5. Are there any taboos I should be aware of? Things which I should not do or which I should not talk about in NYC?

6. Is there a noteworthy German community in NYC where I could go and say Hi? If so, where is it?

Thanks in advance
Thomas
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Shapeless
 
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Reply Sun 7 May, 2006 06:11 am
Re: Beginner questions on New York City
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3. I understand I better not rent a car but should use the metro and cabs. How do I recognize if a cab driver is cheating me with regard to the fare? Is it possible at all if you've never driven yourself in that city?


Generally, getting cheated in a NYC cab is not something one has to worry about. Unlike some other cities, the cabbies will start you off with a fresh meter, so you won't have to worry about the $1.25 that was already sitting mysteriously on the meter when you hopped in the car. On the other hand, it is common to tip the cabbies a few bucks.


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Is it OK to ignore beggars or do I need to equip myself with a lot of change to avoid being harassed by them?


I've found that beggars in NYC tend to be less vocal than those in other cities I've spent time in. (I really think it has something to do with the weather.) There are always exceptions, of course, but in general beggars won't even address you unless you make eye contact with them. (Which is one reason, I'm convinced, why New York pedestrians walk so quickly, eyes straight ahead with very little attention paid to the people around them. My friends who are newcomers to the city often interpret this as rudeness; I like to think of it as practicality.)
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 7 May, 2006 10:26 am
Re: Beginner questions on New York City
I'll reply in blue.

TA wrote:
Hi there

I reckon there are some threads about NYC already but since none of them seem to deal with "beginner questions" I figure I'd better open a new one.

I love big cities. I can walk hour after hour in say Paris, London, Barcelona, Frankfurt etc. and just "inhale" the atmosphere. Now I'm tinkering with the idea of my second trip to the US and visiting New York City. But there are quite a few things which I don't know. Maybe you could tell me about them.

1. My preferred way of lodging is to rent an apartment for one or two weeks and buy my food in stores like the locals do. Is this possible in NYC? Where can I find these offers then? Probably, try this link: http://www.mlx.com/new_york_apartments_resources/New_York_City_short-term-apartments-rentals-new-york-city-rent-buy I can't vouch for quality or price. I just put the words new york city short-term lease apartments into Google.
If I need to go to a hotel, which ones would you recommend if the Ritz is not an option? There are dozens of hotels, and Manhattan is pretty large. You've got to narrow down to an area before anyone can tell you anything meaningful. I have no problem with just the basics but I also don't want to experience roaches, non working toilets etc. Wink Oh yes, I'd also like a safe neighborhood. Of course. There are choices so you need to be more specific about price in order to narrow this down. If I want to get shot I can have this here, too.

2. What areas of the city should better be avoided? Bowery, much of Harlem. Any area can be dangerous, most areas can be safe during the day. I realize that's vague but Manhattan is not homogeneous. I will most likely travel alone and carry a camera. Would this make me an easy target somewhere in NYC? Don't wave it around, don't yak about how expensive it is and don't wave money around. Otherwise, you should be fine.

3. I understand I better not rent a car but should use the metro and cabs. Don't rent a car, parking is outrageous. It's not called the metro, it's called the subway. How do I recognize if a cab driver is cheating me with regard to the fare? Like shapeless said, this isn't too bad of an issue, so long as you use a yellow cab. Don't use gypsy cabs (unmarked, unlicensed, no medallion), as price and quality are very variable. One way you can be cheated is if the driver takes the long way to anywhere, but it is not in their best interests. It's in the driver's best interest to pick up more fares quickly as he gets more for the first fraction of a mile than for any other mile fractions. But a meandering drive can still happen. Drivers almost always ask you how you want to go (e. g. which highway or road) and which intersection or corner as streets are long and intersections are wide. If you are not taking a cab during rush hour, it usually pays to go via a highway (West Side Highway or the like) if the trip is a long one, otherwise, it pays to go via regular streets. Streets go East-West and avenues go North-South although down in Greenwich Village that rules goes kerflooey. Is it possible at all if you've never driven yourself in that city?

4. Is it OK to ignore beggars or do I need to equip myself with a lot of change to avoid being harassed by them? The beggars here only say nasty things to you if you avoid them. Not sure how far they'd go in NYC... Ignore them. Hard luck stories are all the same and most of them are meaningless (yeah, I'm a hard case), you don't want to give these people your money so that they can buy drugs or alcohol. Don't offer money or you can be followed. If you are followed, try to find a police officer, or duck into a bank. If neither option is available, find a crowd of people. Shapeless is correct to try to avoid eye contact.

5. Are there any taboos I should be aware of? Things which I should not do or which I should not talk about in NYC? Not that I can think of. In the airport, be aware that joking about terrorism and related topics can get you searched, but that's not just going to happen in NYC.

6. Is there a noteworthy German community in NYC where I could go and say Hi? If so, where is it? I have no idea. Try this link: http://www.germanyinnyc.org/index.php?section=guide&sub=fooddrink&parid=1 Again, I can't vouch for quality or price.

Thanks in advance
Thomas


Enjoy!
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talk72000
 
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Reply Tue 23 May, 2006 03:02 am
Times sure changed. There were practicallyno beggars when I was in NYC. Stayed at 76th and Broadway.
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Tue 23 May, 2006 07:57 pm
Taxi meters start at $2.50 these days.

More later.

Joe(Uptown)Nation
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 23 May, 2006 08:34 pm
ehBeth found an apartment rental through Craig's List and was very happy with it - her account of that is probably buried in her long long long long now thread on New York City. You might go up to search at the top of the page and try putting in Craig's List and, under the, member name, ehBeth. And then click on posts. (Who knows, I'm not so good at searching.) ehBeth may see this thread and have comments - she's done extensive searching for nifty hotels, seems to have found several.

Me, I stayed at the YMCA, something of a mistake that week, and not all that inexpensive. I didn't go out at night except by taxi, but then I'm an older woman with vision aggravation. During the day, I by myself, and at other times with Diane, another a2k friend, walked scads of miles with people only being nice to us. Still, 'tis a city, having antennae up for that is good. I'm from Venice, California, home of the homeless, at least at one point, and I guess I vary on the eye contact thing. I got to be - if not close personal friends, at least familiars with some homeless people. They are as individual as the rest of us, to me.
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Tue 23 May, 2006 08:49 pm
Make sure you wear plenty of clothing displaying logos for the Boston Red Sox. You shall become a local hero in no time.
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Wed 24 May, 2006 08:08 pm
Thomas:

I am no help on lodging. That looks like a fairly good site in jespah's post and Craig's List is one of the best sources for everything.

2. What areas of the city should better be avoided? I will most likely travel alone and carry a camera. Would this make me an easy target somewhere in NYC?

Go where you want to go. Just look like you know where you are going and you'll be fine. Study the map of where you want to go, get the landmarks in your head: Street Names and which direction they go, then go, go, go.!!

3. I understand I better not rent a car but should use the metro and cabs. How do I recognize if a cab driver is cheating me with regard to the fare? Is it possible at all if you've never driven yourself in that city?

You're not going to get cheated, but first: here's HOW to Hail A CAB---
Get off the curb at a corner and Raise one arm high! The cabs with the lighted numbers and letters on top are available, ignore the unlighted ones. There are times (rainstorms) and places (Times Square just after the shows start shutting down) when cabs are very scarce. Be aggressive!
If you see a vacant (lighted) taxi, wave, point and start walking toward it.
There may be others looking for the same one. Get to the cab and open the door first and it's yours!

Tell the driver where you want to go in Streets and Avenues, as in "I need to go to 86th and Fifth." or "16th and 8th, please." The more homework you do on your maps the less you will sound like a tourist.

Tip about a dollar for every five on the meter. (Note: at rush hour -5-7pm and late night there is a little adder fee of a $1.00 tacked on to the meter amount. That's the number to the right of the metered number. The meter clicks up forty cents for every fifth of a mile (nobody can do that math) a mile ride is about six bucks including the tip. IF the ride was especially good -fast -safe -fun ---tip the guy another buck or two. They need the gas money.


4. Is it OK to ignore beggars or do I need to equip myself with a lot of change to avoid being harassed by them? The beggars here only say nasty things to you if you avoid them. Not sure how far they'd go in NYC...
Pay no attention to anyone. Pay attention to everybody. Don't give money to anyone. You are going to hear the most heartrending stories on the subway. (One guy was mugged last week for the past three years.)
Read your newspaper VERY intently. They will go away.


5. Are there any taboos I should be aware of? Things which I should not do or which I should not talk about in NYC?
Shucks. This is a big city with room for everything, except please don't stop in the middle of a sidewalk. "Anyone standing still is in someone else's way."

6. Is there a noteworthy German community in NYC where I could go and say Hi? If so, where is it?

Check this out Germany in America
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babsatamelia
 
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Reply Wed 24 May, 2006 11:43 pm
DO take care. On my one and only trip to the Big Apple. my luggage & my friend's soccer equipment were stolen from the trunk of my friend's car while we were at the Improv on the very 1st night I arrived there. Email Pauline Frommer, she's the very most helpful woman & gave me the idea of living in San Miguel de Alllende in Mexico. This is a city with some gringos, but retains mostly Mexican flavor and people and I did
SO enjoy their food, weather, people - everything. I just told her about
the kind of experience I was looking for.
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Fri 26 May, 2006 02:51 am
Where is TA?
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