Ticomaya wrote:Um, how can you call it "non-standard"?
Because it's hardly the way everyone does it, is it?
Really - I kind of admire Lash's philosophy of walking away, time and again, when hearing something that offends her: "I kept getting offended, I kept leaving". It's very principled.
But that's not what most people do, is it? Most people stay with their congregation, mostly because well, they've bonded with the community, arent just there for the sermons, and decide to weigh it all out. Sermons they dont agree with or even consider outright dumb vs good works that they like, a community of people they're attached to, sermons they
do feel inspired by.
Neither would most people agree that attending someone's congregation comes down to "a contract" that makes you an "adherent".
Note - what I was taking issue with in
Lash's post is not about, "well but the stuff Wright said was
so bad, thats just not right that he stayed, that's a judgement problem." What I pointed out was a logical mistake.
Lash leaves a congregation when something is said that offends her, and feels that sitting in a congregation makes you an adherent of the pastor; so if
she keeps attending a congregation that means that she does indeed agree with what is said, and is comfortable considering herself an adherent. Ergo, she argued, unless Wright wasnt saying ridiculous stuff before, the fact that the
Obamas stayed in Wright's church must also mean that
they agreed with all that Wright said (or at least one of them did).
That doesnt make sense. It doesnt
need to mean that at all. It could just mean that the Obamas don't share this belief that "sitting there" in a church makes you "an adherent", and that it's one's duty to walk away whenever you hear something that offends you. They would hardly be alone in that.