@okie,
okie wrote:
Settle down. I cannot help it if women can only have babies, men can't. Don't blame me. I did not create how this was all set up. Men do not have wombs. I can't help that.
Simmer down, cyclops, I only made an observation of fact, which is not an act of cruelty.
It sure is easy to pull your string. What is the hypersensitivity here?
Marriage isn't about making babies. It's not even the most important thing about marriage for society, because a large percentage of married folks have no children for various reasons. But all marriages do share one very positive effect, children or not: stability. Now, divorces show us that obviously not every marriage is stable; but most are and most do put stability into people's lives.
This is extremely good for the economy, to put it bluntly. People who have families (spouse and/or kids) keep working, keep their jobs rather than skip around, keep spending money on goods for their house or apartment...
Anyway. The important part is that gay people have feelings too, I mean, don't you know that? Do you accept that? Because you can imagine how painful it would be to have people such as yourself tell them that their rights are equal to yours. That they have all the rights that you do and it's all equal. B/c that's bullshit, and you know it.
Here in America, as opposed to other countries and even our own farther back in history, we have the right to marry
whoever we want. Things like economic class, race, age, and education or 'social' level do not prevent anyone from being with the one they love and creating a
stable and permanent arrangement which benefits themselves and society.
Unless you're gay, in which case, you just don't have that right. You and I as kids could look at pictures of pretty girls and fantasize about marrying them or being with them. Laws and attitudes like yours tell them that they cannot do that, that they don't have the right to do that.
By saying the stuff you say, you're essentially denying that gay folks have emotions, or that their happiness or unhappiness matters at all. You deny them the same kind of life that you got a chance to leave. It's pretty insulting to them and a real jerk thing to say. Now, I don't think you are a jerk and I'm not trying to pick a fight with you. But I know lots of gay folks, and they are perfectly decent, no different than you or I, and want and desire the same things in life. I can't just sit back and let people demean them without trying to point out that this is a very, very wrong thing to do.
No matter how you feel about gays, please understand that they have always been with us and always will be. The level of gayness going on isn't going to change one whit if you allow them to marry someone they love or bar them from doing that. But what you are really doing is barring stability from their community, from a percentage of America, and that's a damn shame, for it hurts all of us.
Cycloptichorn