OK, I didnt see that last post, I'll respond and then leave it be.
Cycloptichorn wrote:More distasteful then accusations of racism, when there is none?
Who cares? Bad taste is bad taste. "What I said was less bad than what he said" isnt much of a defence when you're talking with someone who's frothing at the mouth.
Or ever, really, for an adult.
Cycloptichorn wrote:I don't think your argument logically follows. Somebody who grew up amongst one group of minorities, but did not have any real experience with other groups, probably doesn't understand those other groups as well as people who did grow up in that situation - whether or not they themselves are a minority.
I highly doubt that woiyo's experiences as a native American youth are anywhere near those of an African-American youth in America; it's silly to say that they are, as they face a different set of problems and have a different set of 'advantages.' So why should he be an authority on them?
Thats all well and good, but it doesnt apply to what you actually said, which I commented on.
"I would wager that I have spent far more time interacting with, living with, and working with minorities, then you ever have or will." That was what I responded to. Considering that, you know, he
is a minority, and was presumably raised by at least one minority parent, that's pretty much a losing proposition.
If you had meant to say, "I have spent far more time interacting with African-Americans and/or Hispanics than you, as Native American, will have had", it would ... well, it would still have been foolish, as you dont know anything about his life. But at least your arguments here would have applied.
I dunno. Telling someone who's actually from a minority that "I have spent far more time interacting with, living with, and working with minorities, then you ever have or will" seems like, in real life, only a presumptious prick would say.
Even in the extremely rare situation (say, Eminem talking to Obama) that it would actually be true in.
Not to say the other guy isnt behaving like a prick... God knows, that time that Lash was calling me a racist, well, as someone who knows about my life would have guessed, I was really, really upset. Like, ready to tear someone a new a-hole upset.
So it goes...