Do unto others as you would have them do unto you....
I'm sure I'd rather be treated well by MY standards.
Exactly my point
My dear, whom I esteem,
That would entail my doer of good to treat me as I want to be treated, not as he would like to treat me.
If I'm a guest, spending the night in his home, and he likes to sleep in a warm room, but I like to sleep with the window open---how should he treat me?
He should sleep in the window with the window open and snuggle up close.
