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Wendy Wasserstein has died

 
 
sozobe
 
Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 10:04 am
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060130/ap_en_ot/obit_wasserstein

She was 55. It seems to be from cancer. Her little daughter is only about 6.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 11:37 am
That's a circle for me.

It was a review of a Wendy Wasserstein piece in the online New York Times that literally sucked me into Abuzz. There was a little ad at the end of the review - "do you want to talk to other people who found this article interesting", something along that line - I clicked on yes, and found myself at Abuzz.

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I think this was the piece

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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 12:36 pm
From the NYT's:

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Wendy Wasserstein, Chronicler of Women's Identity Crises, Dies
By CHARLES ISHERWOOD
Wendy Wasserstein, who spoke for a generation of smart, driven but sometimes unsatisfied women in a series of popular plays that included the long-running Pulitzer Prize winner "The Heidi Chronicles," died today after a bout with lymphoma, Lincoln Center Theater announced. She was 55.

Starting in 1977 with her breakthrough work "Uncommon Women and Others," Ms. Wasserstein's plays struck a profound chord with women struggling to reconcile a desire for romance and companionship, drummed into the baby boom generation by the seductive fantasies circulated by Hollywood movies, with the need for intellectual independence and a sense of achievement separate from the personal sphere.

Her heroines ?- intelligent and successful but also riddled with self-doubt ?- sought enduring love a little ambivalently, but they did not always find it, and their hard-earned sense of self-worth was often shadowed by the frustrating knowledge that American women's lives continued to be measured by their success at capturing the right man.

Ms. Wasserstein drew on her own experience as a smart, well-educated, funny Manhattanite who was not particularly lucky in romance to create heroines in a similar mold, women who embraced the essential tenets of the feminist movement but did not have the stomach for stridency.

For Ms. Wasserstein, as for many of her characters and indeed her fans, humor was a necessary bulwark against the disappointments of life, and a useful release valve for anger at cultural and social inequities.

Her work, which included three books of nonfiction and a forthcoming novel as well as about a dozen plays, had a significant influence on depictions of American women in the media landscape over the years: Heidi Holland, the steadily single, uncompromising heroine of "The Heidi Chronicles," can be seen as the cultural progenitor of "Sex and the City's" Carrie Bradshaw. (Coincidentally, Sarah Jessica Parker, who starred in that HBO series, played a series of small roles in the original production of "The Heidi Chronicles.")

Ms. Wasserstein, who grew up in New York, recalled attending Broadway plays as a young woman and being struck by the absence of people like herself onstage: "I remember going to them and thinking, I really like this, but where are the girls?" Ms. Wasserstein would fill the stage with "girls" ?- a term she used with a wink despite taking flak for it ?- in a series of plays that pleased her loyal audiences even when the critics did not always embrace them.

"The Heidi Chronicles," her most celebrated and popular play, opened on Broadway in 1989 after receiving critical acclaim Off Broadway. It ran for 622 performances and collected the Tony and New York Drama Critics Circle awards for best play, as well as the Pulitzer Prize. The play, in which Joan Allen created the title role, toured nationally and was later filmed for television with Jamie Lee Curtis.

Reviewing the play in Newsday, Linda Winer called it "a wonderful and important play. Smart, compassionate, witty, courageous, this one not only dares to ask the hard questions ... but asks them with humor, exquisite clarity and great fullness of heart."

Ranging across more than two decades, "The Heidi Chronicles" was an episodic, seriocomic biography of an art historian seeking to establish a fixed and fulfilling sense of identity amid the social convolutions of the 1960's and 70's, a period when the rulebook on relationships between men and women was being rewritten.

Heidi's allegiance to her ideals and her unwillingness to compromise them for the sake of winning a man's attentions caused conflict with friends who chose easier or different paths. Looking around at her materialistic, married, self-obsessed peers two decades after the exhilarating birth of feminism, Heidi observes: "We're all concerned, intelligent, good women. It's just that I feel stranded. And I thought the whole point was that we wouldn't feel stranded. I thought the point was that we were all in this together."

In the play's bittersweet final scene, Heidi has become a single mother to a new infant ?- a path Ms. Wasserstein would herself choose to pursue many years later, ultimately at great physical cost, when she gave birth to her daughter, Lucy Jane, at age 48 in 1999.

Ms. Wasserstein's next play, "The Sisters Rosensweig," brought the issues of ethnicity and religion into her conversation about the making and remaking of women's identities as it focused on three sisters with differing relationships to their Jewish roots. It opened on Broadway in 1993, ran for 556 performances and was nominated for a Tony Award for best play.

Less successful was her 1997 play, "An American Daughter," inspired by the harsh attacks on women in politics, which lasted only 89 performances on Broadway, though Ms. Wasserstein later adapted it for television.

Ms. Wasserstein's other plays were produced Off Broadway, and included "Isn't It Romantic" (originally produced, to mixed notices, in 1981 and revised in 1983, when it was largely acclaimed) and "Old Money" (2000), a time-traveling comedy about the well-heeled. Her most recent play, "Third," about a female professor who is forced to question her staunchly held ideas about politics and ethics, opened in October and was extended through December at Lincoln Center Theater's Mitzi E. Newhouse Theater.

Ms. Wasserstein's abundant gift for comedy and her plays' popularity disguised the more serious ambitions underpinning her writing. "My work is often thought of as lightweight commercial comedy," she told The Paris Review in 1997, "and I have always thought, 'no, you don't understand: this is in fact a political act.' 'The Sisters Rosensweig' had the largest advance (for a play) in Broadway history, therefore nobody is going to turn down a play on Broadway because a woman wrote it or because it's about women."

When Ms. Wasserstein won the best-play Tony for "Heidi Chronicles," it was the first time a woman had won the prize solo.

Ms. Wasserstein was born in Brooklyn on Oct. 18, 1950, the youngest of four siblings. Her father was a textile manufacturer, her mother an amateur dancer. In addition to her daughter, Ms. Wasserstein is survived by her mother, Lola Wasserstein; her sister Georgette Levis, and her brother Bruce, the chairman of the investment banking giant Lazard and the owner of New York magazine.The family moved to Manhattan when Ms. Wasserstein was 11. After earning her undergraduate degree from Mount Holyoke College in 1971, she studied creative writing at City College with Joseph Heller and Israel Horovitz. Her first play, "Any Woman Can't," found its way to Playwrights Horizons, then a small Off Broadway company, and was produced in 1973, shortly before she began to study playwriting in earnest at the Yale School of Drama. ("My parents only let me go to drama school because it was Yale," she told A. M. Homes in an interview for the magazine Bomb. "They thought I'd marry a lawyer.")

Ms. Wasserstein's career would be closely linked both with Playwrights Horizons, which under its artistic director Andre Bishop would first produce "The Heidi Chronicles," and with many of the artists she met at Yale, including the designer Heidi Ettinger and the director James Lapine, who remained lifelong friends. (Mr. Bishop left Playwrights Horizons to move to Lincoln Center Theater, which has produced all her subsequent plays.)

Ms. Wasserstein's classmate, the playwright Christopher Durang, was a particular friend; she used his introductory ice-breaker ?- "You look so bored, you must be very bright" ?- directly in "The Heidi Chronicles," and they collaborated on a revue for the school's cabaret group.

After receiving a master's degree in fine arts in 1976, Ms. Wasserstein returned to Manhattan, and essentially never left. Her first major success came quickly, with "Uncommon Women" in 1977, produced by the Phoenix Theater. Depicting an informal reunion of a group of Mount Holyoke graduates that dissolves into scenes of their college days, it was described as "funny, ironic and affectionate" by Edith Oliver in The New Yorker, who added, "Under the laughter there is ... a feeling of bewilderment and disappointment over the world outside college, which promised so much, and with their own dreams, which seem to have stalled."

The play, which was filmed and telecast on PBS's "Great Performances," was also an important breakthrough in the careers of the actresses Glenn Close, Swoosie Kurtz and Meryl Streep, who played Ms. Close's role in the television version.

Ms. Wasserstein's other writing included a spoof of self-help literature, "Sloth" (Oxford University, 2004), and two books of essays, "Bachelor Girls" (Knopf, 1990) and "Shiksa Goddess" (Knopf, 2001), eclectic collections that embraced such disparate topics as Chekhov, her sister's battle with breast cancer, and the life and career of Mrs. Entenmann, creator of a bakery empire and fosterer of much guilt. Included in "Shiksa Goddess" was an essay Ms. Wasserstein wrote for The New Yorker, as poignant as it was hilarious, in which she discussed the medical complications of her late-life pregnancy and her newborn daughter's early struggles.

"Although I remain a religious skeptic," she wrote, referring to the disorienting days following Lucy Jane's premature birth, "I had a kind of blind faith. I believed in the collaboration between the firm will of my one-pound-twelve-ounce daughter and the expertise of modern medicine. Of course, there was more than a bit of random luck involved, too."

Ms. Wasserstein also wrote a children's book, "Pamela's First Musical," which she recently adapted for the stage in collaboration with Cy Coleman and David Zippel, and wrote the libretto for "Festival of Regrets," one of three one-act operas presented under the collective title "Central Park" at the New York City Opera. She had also completed a libretto for another opera with music by Deborah Drattell.

Ms. Wasserstein also worked intermittently for Hollywood, although her sole produced screenplay credit was for "The Object of My Affection," a 1998 romantic comedy that starred Jennifer Aniston. Her first novel, "Elements of Style," is to be published by Knopf in April.

But the object of Ms. Wasserstein's deepest affection was always the stage, and her relationship with the theater permeated all aspects of her life. Her friendships in the theatrical community (and out of it) were wide and deep, and she generously gave of her time and resources to benefits of all kinds. A recipient of a Guggenheim Fellowship, she later served on the Guggenheim Foundation board, and she also taught playwriting at several universities.

In 1998, seeking to help instill her love for theater in a new generation of New Yorkers, she personally instigated a program to bring smart but underprivileged students from New York's public high schools to the theater. In an essay about the program for The New York Times, she wrote: "As far as I'm concerned, every New Yorker is born with the inalienable right to ride the D train, shout 'Hey, lady!' with indignation and grow up going regularly to the theater. After all, if a city is fortunate enough to house an entire theater district, shouldn't access to the stage life within it be what makes coming of age in New York different from any other American city?"

The program, administered by the Theater Development Fund, has steadily expanded since Ms. Wasserstein first held a pizza party for eight students from DeWitt Clinton High School in the Bronx after a matinee of "On the Town." Now officially dubbed Open Doors, it consists of 17 separate groups or more than 100 students chaperoned to a season's worth of theater offerings by interested mentors.

Of course Ms. Wasserstein's devotion to theater took its purest and most enduring form in her writing for the stage, which allowed her the freedom to explore the evolving lives of American women with a fluidity and frankness that befit the complex experience she was writing about. Although it was always laced with comedy, her work was also imbued with an abiding sadness, a cleareyed understanding that independence can beget loneliness, that rigorous ideals and raised consciousnesses are not always good company at the dinner table. But she shared her compassion among a wide array of characters, those who settled and those who continued to search.

"No matter how lonely you get or how many birth announcements you receive," a character says in "Isn't It Romantic," "the trick is not to get frightened. There's nothing wrong with being alone." The popularity of her work speaks for her ability to salve a little of that feeling of aloneness in her audiences with her deeply felt portraits of women ?- and occasionally men ?- seeking solidarity in their individuality, finding comfort in the knowledge that everyone else is sometimes uncomfortable with the choices they've made, too.



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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 12:38 pm
Interesting.

I knew she was fighting cancer, but she was (was?!) pretty much the impersonation of indomitability, got an incredulous "What?!" out of me when I saw the news item.

Thinking of her daughter a lot, too.
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bree
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 01:04 pm
I find this news devastating, partly for the purely self-centered reason that I'm the same age as Wendy Wasserstein, but mainly because I admired her work so much. With her death coming so soon after August Wilson's (and both of them much too early), we've now lost two of the best American playwrights in less than four months.

I remember seeing "Uncommon Women and Others" off-Broadway in 1977 (five years after graduating from a college that has a lot in common with Wasserstein's alma mater, Mount Holyoke, where "Uncommon Women" takes place), and being blown away by the fact that someone was writing plays about people I knew. Since then, I think I've seen every play she wrote, right up to her last play, "Three", which was produced at Lincoln Center last fall. They varied in quality, but at the end you always walked out of the theater with something to think about.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 01:06 pm
Ms. Wasserstein formed a part of my world view. The world is a poorer place without her.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 03:27 pm
I was coming back to post about the recognition *click* I always got from Ms. Wasserstein's work.

Then I realized that she's the reason I met the other 3 who've posted to this thread.

Thank you, Wendy!
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bree
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 07:14 pm
The title of Wendy Wasserstein's last play is "Third" (not "Three", as I incorrectly stated in my previous post).

(What's happened to the ability to edit our posts?)
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 07:18 pm
ehBeth wrote:
Then I realized that she's the reason I met the other 3 who've posted to this thread.


Wow.

Thanks to Wendy for that from me, too.
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mac11
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 07:21 pm
I always felt that Wendy Wasserstein was speaking for me and to me. It's a very sad day.

I am certain that she has inspired many young people to support and become involved in theater. That's something to hope for anyway.

The most stunning fact in the article for me was this: "When Ms. Wasserstein won the best-play Tony for "Heidi Chronicles," it was the first time a woman had won the prize solo." What an astonishing statement. If I knew that at the time, I'd forgotten it. By the way, the only other woman playwright who has achieved that was Yasmina Reza for Art in 1998.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Mon 30 Jan, 2006 09:24 pm
Listening. I read about her, but never saw or read the plays. Liked interviews of her, though I don't remember them in detail.
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flyboy804
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 08:47 am
A lovely tribute from the N.Y.Times:

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By GAIL COLLINS
Published: January 31, 2006
Wendy Wasserstein and I had a running e-mail joke in which we took turns taking responsibility for everything bad that happened. "I'll bring the Iraqi constitution and we can work on it in the bar," she wrote last year before a theater date. I congratulated her for getting Michael Brown the FEMA job. We both claimed to be in charge of the Middle East peace process.

We were making fun of Wendy's reputation for good-heartedness. Her outrageously premature death yesterday deprived the nation of a beloved playwright, but it also stripped the city of one of its best people.

The first time I met her, she was rushing to a speaking engagement at a small library in a faraway section of Brooklyn. I assumed that either this was the historic spot where she had learned to read or that she was related to the librarian. But no, it was simply a place that had the moxie to ask a Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright to come and do its event.

"Last month I was voted Miss Colitis," Wendy once wrote. "I was honored at the Waldorf-Astoria and presented with a Steuben glass bowl ?- by Mary Ann Mobley Collins, a former Miss America. It's not that the treatment of colitis is an unworthy mission, but I have no connection to the cause except that I received a letter from the Colitis Committee asking me to show up. In other words, I became Miss Colitis because I am very nice."

Sometimes it was almost impossible to resist taking advantage. Wendy and I once jointly agreed to give talks at a convention of women journalists being held in Montana, under the theory that it would be an excellent opportunity to see one another. (We had reached that circle of scheduling hell in which two people who live less than a mile apart have to traverse the continent in order to have coffee.) After I arrived, I got a call from Wendy, who had missed the plane. Her only alternatives were to cancel or fly in at midnight, give her address at breakfast and then immediately return to the airport.

"You should do whatever you think best," I said cruelly. "The only thing I can tell you is that these women are really nice and they're looking forward to meeting you."

I picked her up at midnight. "You were right," she said, as we drove back to the airport 10 hours later. "They were awfully nice women."

Wendy was a charter member of the company of nice women, a river of accommodating humanity that flows through Manhattan just as it flows through Des Moines and Oneonta, N.Y., organizing library fund-raisers, running day care centers, ordering prescriptions for elderly parents, buying all the birthday presents and giving career counseling to the nephew of a very remote acquaintance who is trying to decide between making it big on Broadway and dentistry.

In the essay that began with the Miss Colitis story, she noted that niceness had become unfashionable, and promised to be crankier in the future. It was just a literary device. Wendy understood that being considerate in a society of self-involved strivers was not for wimps. It required a steely inner toughness that was the hallmark of many of her heroines.

She also knew her own nature. "Frankly, I never want to leave a room and be thought of as a horrible person," she admitted. But Wendy never explained what the rest of us were supposed to do when she left the room before us.

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mac11
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 08:58 am
Oh, my. The last line of that really got to me.

Thanks for posting it, flyboy.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 09:04 am
At the danger of outing myself as a barbarian, I must confess that this is the first time I hear Wendy Wasserstein was ever alive. But judging by my high regard of those I see mourning for her in this thread, I probably ought to put her on my to-read list. Can you recommend any particular favorites to start with?
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flyboy804
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 09:11 am
I met her a few times at receptions and she appeared to be one of the warmest individuals I ever met. Her almost perpetual smile seemed to be totally sincere.

The over used expression "I'll really miss her" really is fitting, for I'm sure she had many fine plays left in her. I saw everything she wrote that was put on in N.Y. and enjoyed just about all of them. One of my favorites "Miami" never got beyond workshop status. It was a charming musical memoir of her vacations in Miami as an adolescent.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 10:19 am
You met her, flyboy, wow. Very nice tribute, indeed.

And I can so see how she and ehBeth are spiritual twins.

"The Heidi Chronicles" is probably the most HER -- I dunno if you'd like it, though. It's sort of the "Our Bodies, Our Selves" of theater.

(Note, I've only ever read her plays; I know I never saw one on Broadway, not sure if I've ever seen one in any other medium.)
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Sturgis
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 11:52 am
A sad loss indeed... a few years back when The Sisters Rosensweig (spelling?) was playing in New York I was fortunate enough to see it with my niece. It also had the gift of the wonderful actress Madeline Kahn, another talent gone too soon.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 11:54 am
Thomas, I just thought of something, you like "Sex and the City", right? It's widely held to be inspired by/ in the vein of/ an updating of Wasserstein's work, so maybe it would be up your alley.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 01:23 pm
Sounds promising, Sozobe. Another promising title is the one I just found while surfing around on Amazon.com. Oxford University Press published a semi-tongue-in-cheek book series on the seven deadly sins. Wendy Wasserstein contributed the issue on 'sloth'. Since I'm deeply into sloth myself,this title is seriously tempting me. Does someone in this thread have an opinion on it?
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bree
 
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Reply Tue 31 Jan, 2006 01:41 pm
Thanks for the tip, Thomas. I haven't read "Sloth" (the book) myself, but I'm also deeply into sloth (the behavior), so I just put a reserve on the book at the New York Public Library's website. I'm #6 on the reserve list; I'd be curious to know how many holds there were on the book a couple of days ago.

If anyone's interested, of the companion books in the "Seven Deadly Sins" series that are listed on the NYPL's website, there are two holds on "Envy", one on "Greed", and -- surprisingly -- none on "Lust".
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