Oh, momma angel, it's even worse than I thought. Shame on that woman!
Big hugs to you. I feel really terrible for you, though none of this was your fault at all. You trusted your vet.
Something rather similar happened to me, years & years ago. A female vet (with an extraordinarily fantastic reputation at being "good" with cats) was looking after my ailing/dying tabby. I arrived at her premises without prior warning & discovered that my poor, darling cat had not had it's water changed, cage cleaned & had no fresh food (just smelly old stuff!) & was meowing loudly in its cage. I did what I had to do for my cat & never went back there again. I certainly didn't enhance her wonderful reputation with other cat owners that I knew!
All you can do is learn from experience, I'm afraid.
The same thing will never happen to you again, I'm certain! Bottom line: A vet practise is a business. If the "service" is bad, you take your "business" (their profit) elsewhere!