Chrissee wrote:mysteryman wrote:I really dont care if gays can marry or not.
But,it seems to me that an issue like this should be put to a vote,and let the voters decide.
An issue that can have as big an impact as this should be voted on,because the people should be able to decide.
As Big an impact as this? On what? Your male insecurity?
No,it doesn't affect me at all,one way or another.
BUT,lets take another example.
The abortion debate has divided this country into 2 camps,those that are pro-abortion and those that are against it.
Now,the courts ruled that abortion was a "right",and the people were not allowed to vote on it.
That has caused years of debate,argumentsand sometimes violence.
If the people had been allowed to vote on it,I don't think it would have affected the country that way.
Gay marriage is having the same polarizing effect on the country.
The debate is more and more being handled by the courts and the people are not being given any say in the matter.
In this case,the state legislature has decided,without asking the people or allowing the people to choose for themselves.
My own personal opinion is that people should be allowed to marry whomever they want,irirregardlessf sex.
I ddon'tcare what you do in your bedroom,or who you do it with,as long as you aaren'tabusing kids.
Now,knowing full well how the Ca prop system works,I do think it should be voted on by the voters of Ca.
Now,before you get silly with your response,I know how it works because I am a southern Ca native.
I was born in Oceanside Ca and lived there till I was 30.
My "insecurity" as you call it doesn't matter at all.
I am trying to look at it logically.
Quote:In other words you want to change our form of government when it suits your whim?
I'm sorry,how is allowing the people a voice,via the ballot box,trying to change our form of govt?