@axl,
She sounds like a timid, manipulative waste of time and I think you dodged a bullet.
If she has that many issues with a simple breakup with someone who she wasn't married or engaged to, then this is potentially a damaged person who's been abused before, and that's not a reclamation project you want, either.
Or, like you said, it's some sort of odd face-saving gesture.
Repeat after me: not my circus, not my monkeys.
Block her and get on with your life.