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Oh boy im scared for my date

 
 
Reply Sun 9 Jul, 2023 02:04 pm
So i've matched with this beautiful girl on Tinder about a week ago. And when i say beautiful i mean 10/10. And i'm a 5 on a really good day. So we've been talking non stop ever since and today we agreed to go on a date next weekend. Even though i'm really excited to meet her i'm never been more nervous for a date in my life because she's so out of my league and i'm like 99% sure she'll run away the minute she sees me irl. Anyway don't really have a real question, just had to write down how i felt haha. Thanks for reading.
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Mame
 
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Reply Sun 9 Jul, 2023 03:00 pm
@Major Winters,
Beautiful women are often seen with average men and it's not necessarily for the money. My niece is gorgeous and she has married an overweight, shabby-dressing man who is 15 years her senior. She's crazy about him. She says he's funny, and kind, and smart. Looks are not everything. It's the personality, the things you have in common, whether you laugh at the same things, and morals. You really don't want to be with someone who judges based on looks. Also, she must have seen your photo, right, if you've seen hers? And she still agreed to go.

Chill out... and be prepared to have a good time. Dazzle her with your niceness!
Major Winters
 
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Reply Sun 9 Jul, 2023 03:31 pm
@Mame,
Thank you for your reply. It's just the fact that i'm the most average joe who basically has nothing to offer her and she's actually like a super model. Guess i just feel insecure.
Mame
 
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Reply Mon 10 Jul, 2023 04:27 pm
@Major Winters,
Well, good luck and let us know how the date went.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Tue 11 Jul, 2023 10:52 pm
Buck up, soldier. Very few buckos get physically damaged on a first date. Take some flowers or a small box of good chocolates, clean behind your ears, press your suit. It'll work out just fine.
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Major Winters
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jul, 2023 04:00 pm
@Mame,
Little update before the date in 2 days.
Plans were:
-going for a walk with my dog
- going for a drink and diner
- concert

She cancelled the walk and diner and wants to go straight for the concert.
We all know where this is going to right?

33% of her canceling tomorrow
33% of being stood up
33% of having a really bad date

But hey, there's at least that one last %
Mame
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 04:36 am
@Major Winters,
Why was the concert even an option? Very hard to get to know someone while listening to music.

You win some, you lose some. Good luck, and again, keep us updated.
tsarstepan
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 08:56 am
@Mame,
Mame wrote:

Why was the concert even an option? Very hard to get to know someone while listening to music.

Depending on the music, some people do LITERALLY NOTHING but talk to each other during the concert. Especially if it's a free concert in the park.
#justsaying
tsarstepan
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 09:00 am
@Major Winters,
Major Winters wrote:

33% of her canceling tomorrow
33% of being stood up
33% of having a really bad date

With that attitude, I think you're intentionally torpedoing your date before it happens. This is your first date together. Not the fifth or tenth. Maybe she just wants to keep the first meeting simple to get a first impression from you under those circumstances.
Major Winters
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 02:56 pm
@tsarstepan,
Ahh that's just me being me and being stuck in my head. Thanks for your support though.
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Major Winters
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 02:57 pm
@tsarstepan,
It is a free concert in a park actually so yeah it's not like a real concert.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 07:20 pm
@Major Winters,
Free concerts in the park are real concerts.
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Mame
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 08:25 pm
@tsarstepan,
It might also be more comfortable for her going out in public, with lots of other people. A concert in the park sounds great.
Major Winters
 
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Reply Fri 14 Jul, 2023 11:54 pm
@Mame,
This is to everyone reacting on this post. Just woke up. She blocked me on instagram. I knew this would happen.
Thank you for all you guys's support.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sat 15 Jul, 2023 07:35 am
@Major Winters,
Maybe next time, play it cool? Make the date and don't keep checking in.
Major Winters
 
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Reply Sat 15 Jul, 2023 01:41 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
I did dude, did everything by the book. Guess it wasn't meant to be. Ty for your support though.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sat 15 Jul, 2023 05:17 pm
@Major Winters,
Like Old Blues Eyes sang,
"Each time I find myself
Flat on my face
I pick myself up and get
Back in the race"
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Emmy77
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2023 07:20 pm
@Major Winters,
There are indeed many beautiful girls on Tinder
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