@JGoldman10,
1. I remember some years ago someone was explaining
Kwanzaa to me.
2. My understanding is that
Kwanzaa is not a (religious) holiday.
3. It's my understanding that
Kwanzaa is a (cultural) holiday.
4. Celebrating
Kwanzaa doesn't have anything to do with,
whether or not you celebrate
Christmas.
5. You can do one, you can do both, or you can do neither.
6. Let me just point out to you that
Mothers Day and
Fathers Day
are also (cultural) holidays.