a help for my life please

Do you molest children? Steal from charity? Kick puppies and little old ladies? Take a **** in the middle of Main Street? Pollute the air and water?

If you don't, then whatever this rep thing is, it's probably nothing. Seriously. How bad could it be, if it's not one of the above?

Words to live by:

it's about what other people think of me ...

Well, you might want to explain more. Just a thought.

How do I fix a bad reputation?
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If your reputation needs repairing, put all 6 of these recommendations into practice right away.
1.) Do What You Say You Will Do. ...
2.) Treat People Well. ...
3.) When You Make A Mistake, Fix It. ...
4.) Don't Avoid Difficult Conversations. ...
5.) Be Mindful Of What You Say When You're Triggered. ...
6.) Underpromise And Overdeliver.