Lady J wrote:dinsa wrote:how do u know i am 18
dinsa wrote:i m 18 how do i increase my height
Gee, I don't know dinsa.. Did it ever occur to you that there may be more than just you who can be observant of people's characters here?
dinsa wrote:what do u think about my 2nd observaton
It's not inclusive enough. It only embraces a one sided view, accentuating only the positive and neglecting the negative aspect by definition. For every action (force) there is an equal and opposite reaction. To take it seriously, one must look at the circumstances that work for
OR against an individual.
Ok that looks like a one-sided opinion. But LadyJ, when I say luck, I do not mean the luck that wins you lotteries or makes you stumble upon an Aladdin's lamp while you are strolling your way across downtown New York.
The luck that I talk about is the one people, out of envy, like to impose on diligent successful individuals. For instance, suppose Sam has been promoted to the post of Chief Executive from Manager. So, others with green eyes – the subordinates who couldn't make it to that spot- come running away to Sam and snap, " So, Sam you are lucky again!"
I wish to convey this observation to that clique of people- and let me tell them that the luck, which honest and successful chaps seem to be bestowed with is actually an opportunity that they were able to grab coz they were prepared for it- they bent over backwards for it.
Lady J, I appreciate your views. I have read many of your posts. May I ask how did you gain such cognizance in matters of complicated human psychology? Please visit one of my other forums under the same category by the subject line ' do you know your brain is getting better with age?'
Your insights will be of great use to others and me sharing their experiences there.