Sat 12 Sep, 2020 04:41 pm
So it's kinda like this. I'm male in my 2os and I always had this question in the back of my head.
I don't care that much about labels and the like, but sometimes I do think about my own thoughts and feelings.
I have had plenty of sexual thoughts or idea towards men at times. I'm not homophobic by any means. Although I lean more towards females and have mostly seeked relationships with them all my life. It's not that I don't mind trying a same sex relationship, if I didn't have people in my life that would probably disprove.
However ,the big reason I'm questioning whether it's bisexuality or not is that it's not like I actively find myself seeking out men, there's various men in fiction I do find attractive, but that's another thing.
You can find other people attractive or good looking without wanting to be with or do anything with them. I have done a few things with men in the past, but those were relatively minor things. Nothing that extreme, but perhaps I'm overthinking the entire thing altogether.
Do you two wheels and handle bars?
Don't over think it, there's no check list. Pay attention to your heart.
As it seems you're overthinking. Because a man or woman may have a feeling toward a same-sex person depending on various reasons such as appearance, talent, or behavior. It might be an over attraction rather than a sexual feeling. For example, a woman may be attracted to another woman due to her beauty though she is married. It doesn't make the person bisexual. If you feel uncomfortable at any point, you'd better meet a counselor or doctor get a clear idea
I stand by my comment: Pay attention to your heart.