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ww12333
 
Reply Sun 15 Mar, 2020 06:35 am
When I was dating my boyfriend for the very beginning, my boyfriend asked me for sex or not. I am afraid that he would mind that I am not a virgin, I told him I will only do sex after I get married. Actually, after I dated him, I turned to believe in Christian, which doesn't allow sex before marriage. I am afraid that someday he will find that my hymen is broken ( Actually even if my first time of sex, I didn't bleed).

I am afraid he would find me lying to him, and the trust we built will be broken. Should I tell him the truth? but that means I have lied to him.
 
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Reply Sun 15 Mar, 2020 08:11 am
@ww12333,
Hymens are 100% overrated.

Many women don't bleed their first time. It means absolutely nothing.

What's more concerning is you feel the need to lie in your relationship. And that you feel your past (which you can't change) will condemn your future.

Personally, I would tell him. But I also wouldn't have kept it from him and would have the strength to tell him to not let the door hit him if he couldn't accept an unchangeable fact.

I would also argue that the only person who would have to "pay" for such behaviors would be the woman.

Does that sound fair to you?
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