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Thu 2 Jan, 2020 10:47 am
Can I save our friendship?
We know each other 2 months, we never met irl but had plans to. We became pretty close after texting almost every day for 2 months. She blocked me everywhere last saturday, and Im not sure why. I dont think I gave her a reason to do it, everything was normal before I posted an image from a friend. It was a little dog and a twxt saying "if u have a bad day, think about this little dog", it was kinda cute for me. That's what happened after posting this image on ig:
Her: dont kill yourself. Because u are posting so depressive things that even I get depression
Me: It isnt depressive, quite the opposite. Anything I do u always assume the worse, im tired of it. Have a nice day.
Her: xddddddd
Me: Go post some more cigarettes instead of annoying others xD (it was jockingly but she might took it as an offense)
Her: Xddddddddd
Go hassle someone else you depressant
Who write that is attached after one week
U are 5 yo xD
Bye
Me: xD
*blocked me on ig so I wrote on fb*
Me: U really doesnt understand my sense of humor or only pretend?
She: I cant
Me: what?
She: nvm, bye
Me: how bye? Come to the party, dont act the clown (jockingly. Idk if this translation make ajy sense)
She: ok **** off
*she blocked me on fb and then pubg mobile*
So I think I fucked up a little bit. What do u think, it is possible to save our friendship after this? What should I do if yes? I havent done anything yet, I dont want to make things worst
Listen to her. Ever hear of cyber stalking? You're getting very close to it. No means no and its what she keeps saying, NO!
@bobsal u1553115,
Thats why I'm afraid to do anything. But quarrels are something normal in every relationship, I dont want to end our friendship because of such a small thing. I cant believe that she suddenly began to hate me. She told me many times that she really likes me and will be my "mentor" when I finally move to the same town
@Condoriano,
It's not a relationship.
Leave this woman alone.
Full stop.
No maybes, no what-ifs.
She made it clear that she wants no more to do with you.
Accept that and move on.
@jespah,
A friendship IS a relationship.
But thanks for your opinion i will wait for more. It's so hard when the advices arent unambigious :/
@Condoriano,
It's a 2-month connection and you never met in person.
Yes, I am well aware that friendships are relationships.
This connection is not one.
And I'm having a lot of trouble finding the ambiguity in what I said or what she did.
You got blocked, and in more than one place.
That should be an enormous hint to you.
@Condoriano,
Condoriano wrote:
A friendship IS a relationship.
But thanks for your opinion i will wait for more. It's so hard when the advices arent unambigious :/
It appears you really do not want advice -- you want validation of your own feelings/opinion/viewpoint.
You do not want true honest advice.
@jespah,
U dont have to meet in person to be friends. Talking almost everyday for 2 months, saying goodnight every night. Writing to me when she was sad, had a problem or was bored, playing games for hours .Or even telling me her secrets, if it isnt friendship then idk what friendship means.
I know we are not best friends, but still friends
@Linkat,
No, I want advice. But at this time it's 2 to let her alone. 2 to write to her bff and 1 write to her
@Condoriano,
Condoriano wrote:
No, I want advice. But at this time it's 2 to let her alone. 2 to write to her bff and 1 write to her
According to my math - it is 2 to let her alone; 0 for anything else.
@Linkat,
On this forum yes. But it's not the only place where I posted this.
- this forum: 2 "let her alone"
- ig: 2 "write to her close friend if nothing change after few days"
- reddit: 1 "she i weird but write to her and apologise"
Edit: all 3 from other sites said that she is acting weird. Do u agree with it or not?
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