See, all of that, no offense intended blatham, is just so stupid.
I mean no offense because I get many/most of us still, even in this day and age still aren't comfortable with the concept of women, meaning your mother, sister, aunt, that nice lady that always forgets her mail box key, are sexual beings with rockin' sexual needs desires and fantasies.
I get you're just being funny. Like I said, I'm not trying to offend you, but ya know, it is kinda offensive to me that anyone thinks the only way me, or any woman can justify enjoying a sexy, or sex show, is by acting all fluttery and quintessentially girly/childish/child like.
That's fine, maybe you're not being offensive, and I just find it so, and that's my thing, not yours. I'm a big girl, and my being offended isn't your problem.
There's like this taboo among too many women that they aren't supposed to take getting aroused by someones performance seriously. "I'll just put those tingly feelings and strong tuggings aside and giggle/scream/hoot"
We have to joke it up with coy jokes, "oh my, the big policeman is here. I'm naughty" Maybe part of it is the idea that "this authority figure is here and I have to obey him" It takes it out of their hands.
Maybe it's the only way some women can justify engaging in an adult sexual activity outside the "normal" boundaries of being with a partner. "I had to, he was in charge"
Of course female strippers get dressed up in various costumes, but each man watching can have his own take on it. There's not this mass tittering and faux (or even real) embarrassment) about it.
No one would ever say about a man who wasn't into it "he went off in a huff" It would just be "not my thing man". The male friends wouldn't be stunned. They would just carry on, not caring about the proprity of it.
Why does the man get to say "don't find this interesting" but the woman has to "go off in a huff"?
I'm not super into porn, and that's private.
However, I have watched porn where a group of men and women watch others have sex with the primary subject.
I really have to admire the female observers. They know what they are there for, don't make a fuss and get as much pleasure from it as the men watching. They're all equal. They don't have to make excuses being there, like "Well it was Chrissies birthday/engagement party so I had to be there." These watchers of group sex want and like seeing a female get f*cked by several men or other women and don't need to act the excited teeny bopper.
They're acting like adults. Babies and children scream when excitied. Not full grown women.