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thoughts on Trump, women

 
 
Reply Tue 11 Jun, 2019 02:51 am
this is Donald Trump

https://e3.365dm.com/16/10/768x432/eb80dfba1767ac223e3eb4855d420ccef1abf16b39de2c738c92b7d8087d5173_3820963.jpg

this is Karen McDougal

https://images.hellogiggles.com/uploads/2018/02/16033027/karen-mcdougal.jpg


I'm a 14 years old. I guess you could say that I've started to take notice of girls. I would like to date some day. I'm not trying to be controversial, but I feel like I'm getting mixed messages.

I'm told by the media and the rest of the world that I should be a good person, work hard, be honest. All that stuff.

and I'm really supposed to believe that girls like Karen McDougal like trump for anything other than his money and success?

I'm sorry but i'm just being honest. It would be nice to have a pretty girl some day . I'm told to be a good person. But everywhere, all around me the guys i see getting the girls are jerks. Jerks and rich guys, Just look at our jerkoff president.

I guess, why can't people just be honest? It's really kind of like insulting to my intelligence to tell me to work hard, and be a good person or "be yourself" when girls behavior tells me that isn't what they like. I'm not a kid trying to shelter me isn't helping, it's hurting
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oralloy
 
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Reply Tue 11 Jun, 2019 04:11 am
The wrong sort of girls are attracted to guys who are jerks. Be glad that these sort of people are not attracted to non-jerks. This is actually a good thing. Don't worry about those girls, and definitely don't try to act like a jerk to try to attract one of them.

Acting like a jerk to try to attract one of these people will probably fail if you are not naturally a jerk. But even if you succeeded that would not be a good thing. Even if they are pretty on the outside, being in a relationship with a person like that will not be a happy experience. Worst of all, acting like a jerk will turn off the sorts of girls that you do want to attract.


Wealth, on the other hand, is significant. Women are attracted to wealthy men the same way that you are attracted to beautiful women.

After you get out of school, the better your career (and paycheck) is, the more prospects you will have when trying to find a mate. So you will really do your future self a lot of favors (and for more reasons than just being attractive to women) if you get on a path towards a good career.


Women are also attracted to athletes. While working towards a solid career, you will do yourself a big favor if you can get on your high school's football or basketball team.

Don't let the pursuit of sports sideline your pursuit of a career, because this will be a fleeting phenomenon. Being a former high school athlete will not help you much after you are out of high school. But if you can get on your school's football or basketball team it will probably make the next few years of your life a happier experience.
good times
 
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Reply Tue 11 Jun, 2019 11:55 pm
@oralloy,
Thanks for your comment. but I have acted like a jerk for real before around a couple girls and i'm just being honest I could tell the difference. And they were older girls too. I'm not usually a jerk but it just happened that way and they treated me different. Can i ask you an honest even though i know you are just a stranger on the internet and could be a weirdo but how old should a guy be really by the time he does it? There are guys in my class that have done it. Most adults lie about that kind of stuff like it's doing a good thing to lie about it.

I know what youmean about those kinds of girls who are the wrong ones. But what if they are pretty? i don't think it's wrong to like pretty girls. My mom is pretty. my sisters are pretty.

I don't like sports. Does that make me a wierdo? I've tried. maybe that's really what i should do. What if i don't make a lot of money?
McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 07:23 am
@good times,
If you "do it" before you are 18 you become desensitized the rest of your life. So, ask yourself... Good time now and be miserable the other 80% of your life, or be a kid a while longer and enjoy the rest of your life?
maxdancona
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 07:39 am
@McGentrix,
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If you "do it" before you are 18 you become desensitized the rest of your life.


Said who?

I ate ice cream before I was 18, I still love ice cream. I hiked up mountains before I was 18, and I still love hiking up mountains.

Most people have had sex before they were 18.... and most people still enjoy sex.
McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 08:43 am
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:

Quote:
If you "do it" before you are 18 you become desensitized the rest of your life.


Said who?

I ate ice cream before I was 18, I still love ice cream. I hiked up mountains before I was 18, and I still love hiking up mountains.

Most people have had sex before they were 18.... and most people still enjoy sex.



Wow... dude's 14. I was trying to get him to not worry about having sex now. 14 should be playing video games and baseball, not chasing women and trying to get laid.

Sorry you missed that.
maxdancona
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 08:48 am
@McGentrix,
Sure, I agree with you that 14 is young to start having sex. There is nothing wrong with saying that. I certainly thought about sex when I was a 14 year old boy. I think that is pretty normal.

But don't lie to him... there is no real risk of him being "desensitized" or of going blind.
McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 08:49 am
@maxdancona,
He's 14, he needs to be lied to.
maxdancona
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 08:53 am
@McGentrix,
McGentrix wrote:

He's 14, he needs to be lied to.


I completely disagree. In fact I couldn't disagree more. There is no excuse for lying to a teenager.

A 14 year old kid is starting adolescence and are coming face to face with adult issues from hormones, to peer pressure to dating relationships. My kids have always known they can trust me when they need to talk

You can give kids healthy messages about waiting without lying. That way when they have legitimate questions about something that is worrying they, they know they can trust you.
McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 01:52 pm
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:

McGentrix wrote:

He's 14, he needs to be lied to.


I completely disagree. In fact I couldn't disagree more. There is no excuse for lying to a teenager.

A 14 year old kid is starting adolescence and are coming face to face with adult issues from hormones, to peer pressure to dating relationships. My kids have always known they can trust me when they need to talk

You can give kids healthy messages about waiting without lying. That way when they have legitimate questions about something that is worrying they, they know they can trust you.


Sounds like something an online predator would say. No one on the internet should be trusted.If the kid is fat and ugly and has no social skills you going to be honest with him and tell him that is why he isn't getting laid at 14?
maxdancona
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 03:25 pm
@McGentrix,
So you saying you tell lies about sex to young teens on the internet to avoid seeming like a sexual predator.

That would be funny if you weren't being such an asshole.
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good times
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 09:51 pm
Oh wow, i did not mean to start a fight with anyone.

How do you put what the other person said in your post?

It's true right? fat, ugly guys won't get girls. Why can't people just be honest about that? If you lie to the fat ugly guys they get thier hopes up for nothing. And if you ask a girl what she likes, she will lie to you instead of telling the truth. But we know they don't like fat ugly guys. but look at Trump. He is not good looking and he's fat. So, I mean I'm not stupid. I know pretty girls like karen Mcdougal don't like him for his looks.

I'm just frustrated. If people would be honest to me I would know what to do. But how can i know if people tell me things that are not true.

Can i ask you McGentrix what do you mean i would be unhappy my whole life? What will happen? Anyway it will not probably happen soon I'm sure.

I know that being a jerk is attractive to girls because i see with my own eyes. But what if that is not enough? I am sorry to ask but are you people men? Because even though I don't know everything the one thing I know is that females lie if you ask them these questions.

I am not fat. I don't know if I'm ugly no one has ever told me. But I don't think I am but I don't think men are pretty so you know what I mean? How would I know? But I'm not an athlete

I have talked to older men about this before but i think about it a lot. i get frustrated because everyone tells me to do things that I know girls don't like because I see thier behavior and I know what they definaitly don't like.

maxdancona how old should a normal man be before he has sex?

I'm just very frustrated. i don't know if I'm coming or going some days I just see a pretty girl and I can't think straight like i am distracted. But I feel like no one is being honest with me.

Very sorry to cause an argument
good times
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 10:07 pm
Some times I wish i didn't have to think about girls because it feels like it makes me dumber. I don't like that. like no matter what I'm doing if theres a cute girl there I can't concentrate. But i can't control it it's so strong like I can't stop it. But what if no matter what I do it's not ever good enough? What about if I got a car? But probably I won't ever get a girl unless I have a lot of money though right?
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oralloy
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 10:48 pm
@good times,
good times wrote:
how old should a guy be really by the time he does it?

Some people lose their virginity in their teens. Others not until their 20s.

I don't know of any hard numbers or percentages. I suppose there have been studies, but I've never looked into them.


good times wrote:
I know what you mean about those kinds of girls who are the wrong ones. But what if they are pretty? i don't think it's wrong to like pretty girls.

Ideally you will find someone who is pretty on the inside (meaning her personality) as well as on the outside.


good times wrote:
I don't like sports. Does that make me a wierdo?

No. But it does mean you will have fewer prospects in high school.

Fewer prospects doesn't mean no prospects, but it does mean that the hottest cheerleader in school probably isn't going to be your girlfriend.


good times wrote:
What if i don't make a lot of money?

Then your wife will probably not be a playboy bunny or a supermodel.


good times wrote:
How do you put what the other person said in your post?

Go down to the bottom of the page and click the "My Preferences" link.

Once you're on the preferences page, set "Show quote button:" to "Yes".

Maybe change some of the other settings to your liking while you're there. It's necessary to change the timezone offset every spring and fall due to daylight savings time.

Then click the big green "Update Preferences" button.

You will then have a "quote" button next to the "reply" button. You can cut-n-paste to break the quote up into smaller quotes if you wish to respond point by point.

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It is good to use the preview button to review a post before submitting it, just to verify that you haven't bungled some of the quotes -- especially if it is a long and complicated post.

You can also edit or delete a post for up to 15 minutes after submitting it, if you happen to notice an error after you've already posted.
good times
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 11:16 pm
@oralloy,
Quote:
Once you're on the preferences page, set "Show quote button:" to "Yes"


Thank you!

Quote:
Some people lose their virginity in their teens. Others not until their 20s.


Can I ask you, will girls like me more if I have a lot of sex? I think they like that, because I see them with guys who do.

Quote:
Ideally you will find someone who is pretty on the inside (meaning her personality) as well as on the outside.


But is it wrong to just like pretty girls who are pretty? I mean, if Karen mcdougal like Trump because he is famous and rich, what is wrong to just like a girl because she's pretty? Isn't that more honest? Plus if I'm being honest, girls are kind of boring. I mean I don't have fun with them like I do with guys, and the stuff they like is boring and kind of stupid.
oralloy
 
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Reply Wed 12 Jun, 2019 11:51 pm
@good times,
good times wrote:
Can I ask you, will girls like me more if I have a lot of sex? I think they like that, because I see them with guys who do.

Who knows what is cause and effect there. Maybe those guys have a lot of sex because girls just like them a lot to begin with.


good times wrote:
But is it wrong to just like pretty girls who are pretty? I mean, if Karen mcdougal like Trump because he is famous and rich, what is wrong to just like a girl because she's pretty? Isn't that more honest?

A guy being attracted to pretty girls is normal. Nothing wrong with it at all.

But if you end up with a pretty girlfriend who is a horrible person, she'll make you miserable pretty quickly.
good times
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jun, 2019 12:16 am
@oralloy,
Can I ask how old you are or at least if you are older than your 20s? And are you a guy?

If you are older, do you know any tips for when I feel like my thoughts are distracted? I hate that. There's a girl in my class named Natalie and her boobs are sooooooo big. I can't help it but when I'm in class I can't concentrate. Like my brain is full of mush.
oralloy
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jun, 2019 12:22 am
@good times,
I'm a guy. Older than my 20s.

Being distracted by pretty girls is normal for a guy. It's just how guys are wired. I don't think there are any ways around it.
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McGentrix
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jun, 2019 12:32 pm
@good times,
Women are not attracted to jerks because they are assholes, they are attracted to people with confidence (according to the books). So, what you see is a guy acting like an asshole, but the girl sees a guy full of confidence.

Problem with being a beta is the lack of confidence in one self. Until you are comfortable with yourself and you not only gain confidence but also exude confidence, beta's tend to be lonely and hang with other betas.
Things you can do:
-Stop being a beta... easy to say, hard to do.
-Find a beta girl. Do not try to impose high standards on a girl if you are bothered when they have high standards for guys.
-Remember that there is someone for everyone. Your someone isn't there now, but will be later.
-STOP TRYING TO HURRY!
-There is no "normal" age to have sex.

Max argues with everyone. It's his thing. Ask him about frames and special relativity...
maxdancona
 
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Reply Thu 13 Jun, 2019 12:44 pm
@McGentrix,
Quote:
Max argues with everyone. It's his thing. Ask him about frames and special relativity...


I got no beef with you McGentrix, I don't know why you want a fight.

I worked as a Physics teacher; "frames and special relativity" are kind of my thing.
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