@glitterbag,
I make an effort to accept facts from multiple perspectives.
I have no problem admitting when someone on my side of an issues says something factually incorrect. Nor do I have any problem accepting when someone on the other side makes a valid point. I can give examples where I have done both of these things.
I agree with feminists in many areas (i.e. equal pay for equal work). I disagree with feminists in other areas. I am a moderately pro-choice, but when someone on the pro-choice side says something that is factual incorrect, I correct them. I am pretty much anti-gun, but when facts support a part of their case-- facts are facts.
There is no reason why you can't support both woman's rights and men's rights. Extremists on both sides seem to have a problem with this as if one can't exist without the other.