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Any help can mean much, sort of depressed

 
 
Sankith
 
Reply Wed 24 Apr, 2019 01:54 pm
Fell in love with a girl at work, but didn't tell her as I knew she doesn't approve of love ( typical indian mentality), because her parents wouldn't approve. She always used to tell she had nothing against love or being in relationship, but as her parents wouldn't approve she didn't want to be so, then to later on feel heartbroken. But I still loved her, I don't have reasons, but I love her so much..
Everyday was difficult, I knew if I told her, she would stop talking to me. Days passed, and somehow she knew I had feelings for her ( many of our friends knew it before itself, by observing the way I was with her) and it was kind of late that she guessed I had feelings for her, so gradually she started maintaining distance with me, I kept asking her the reason even though I knew.
Then the silence grew much, I was feeling so depressed at times, knowing that I love this girl, but couldn't talk to her, that tore me up so much.., so one day I took up the courage to tell her I love her, and I did, she said she didn't wanted to talk much, I said I understood her,. But still as I tried to not disturb her, my depression grew, my friends were there for me to share what I thought, which was a relief .
And weeks later I wrote her a letter, remembering all the wonderful memories I had with her, how I fell for her, and finally wrote that I wished her to be happy, even if her future didn't have my presence with her, and told her no matter what happened I would always wait for her and always love her,..

I thought my coming days would be manageable, but it's harder than I thought, ofcourse I spend time with my parents, siblings, and friends, but her absence is a torment for me, I sometimes think of texting her, but I never wanted to disturb her if she doesn't want to be with me.. I leave office soon.. gonna fly abroad to study,.. any advice or ideas or suggestion are welcome..
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McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 24 Apr, 2019 01:59 pm
Go abroad and study. You don't want to have a relationship with someone at home you are abroad. That never works. Get over her and look elsewhere.
Sankith
 
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Reply Wed 24 Apr, 2019 02:02 pm
@McGentrix,
The course is just for few months and I would be back, hope I didn't miscommunicate that the abroad plan was for a long time, btw thanks for the reply
McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 24 Apr, 2019 02:11 pm
@Sankith,
You can't just pick someone to love, they have to pick you too. You'll when that happens when it happens. There is someone for everyone and you just keep looking til you find the one.
Brooding over lost love benefits no one but the therapist.
Sankith
 
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Reply Wed 24 Apr, 2019 02:14 pm
@McGentrix,
I like your answer, it's true
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jespah
 
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Reply Wed 24 Apr, 2019 04:25 pm
@Sankith,
Throw yourself into your time abroad. Study hard, tour the area, meet people. Have a good time. It will help.
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