@krikor911,
Hello there!
So unfortunately, I will say, you are right, that there isn't one simple and digestible answer for each of these questions.
Let me ask you this: You seem very curious about psychology in general, how old are you?
Are you in a place in life where you can go to school for something? I wonder if you are in college yet or can/want to go to college in the future. I highly suggest you major in psychology if that applies to you!! I went to college for that. So while I do have a general answer for you about a lot of this, it is way too deep to type out each one.. and your curiosity seems to me, like a great drive to dive into psychology more and study it further!
you could also always go to libraries and pick out some books along lines of the questions you asked, and maybe that will scratch your itch in the meantime!
Good luck finding those answers!