@PUNKEY,
the fact of the matter is that when I expressed my concern of them continuing a "friendship" that mostly consisted of sexual acts and her drooling over him, he didn't seem to get why I would ever be uncomfortable at the idea of them....
on that same token, he once (this January) went to her house, behind my back only telling me after because he knew I wouldn't have liked it at all, to give her a hoodie of his that he "promised" her. a hoodie that she would post numerous pictures in stating, "haha, stole _____'s hoodie"... "___'s hoodie is sooo warm", well you get the gist of them.. adding insult to injury, I was coming back from a long distance trip during which we were in an argument...
so whilst it may be before our relationship, her undying love for him and his particular actions put me as unease, however, I am not sure if maybe it is just me or they're as questionable as I think they are.