@plainoldme,
I will try to answer as best I can. This is a tough issue and it is a tough question, pom. I think we need to approach this issue from a position of sound constitutional law to begin with, and I simply do not think the "Right to Privacy" reasoning as used in Roe v Wade is valid at all, so I would start with that observation. Secondly, I understand that the woman referred to as Roe has done a 180 and now opposes abortion, largely trying to clear her conscience from the decision Roe v Wade. That should tell us much, pom. I also understand from what I have absorbed about this, is that those women that have abortions, many suffer tremendous life-long issues of guilt, it essentially leaves an emotional scar on them the rest of their life. I simply cannot believe that promoting abortion in this country can be a good thing, just based upon common sense itself.
With all of that said, I recognize that there are in fact a very very small percentage of abortions that are done, that may have life threatening issues for the mother. And you bring up an example of the Anencephaly, yes that is a tough one, but do we simply kill people in this country if they are vegetables for example? No we do not. I personally know a young man, an honor student, that was born at about 6 months and not given much chance at all. I also know a man that was a supposed vegetable after a vehicle accident, but he defied the odds and has made almost a full recovery to live independently now. Most people had written him off. So I come back to the idea that compassion is always the best path.
My final analysis, I am no expert on this, but my brother was a doctor until retired. He influenced me greatly in my opinion about this, and to summarize it quickly, he recognized the miracle of a baby to be born and he was very adamantly against abortion and would never perform an abortion, as far as I know. Also, I probably have never mentioned this before, we have adopted children in our family and they first of all are very adamantly opposed to abortion, as is the remainder of the family.
Finally, I think we first need to return to sound constitutional law by striking down the very poorly reasoned Roe v Wade decision, and perhaps go back to the situation of allowing the states to determine the issue, state by state. I would need to study the issue in much more detail, study statistics and get input from the medical community, to provide a better and more in depth answer for you, pom.