@plainoldme,
plainoldme wrote:
Quote:It makes me curious about your having an ex-husband, not to be nosy, but did the man get tired of you berating his writing and his work, and so he left?
My ex signed my name to more than $100,000 worth of loans as though he had power-of-attorney, which he did not. He used the money to help fund business ventures in which he wanted to become involved as it was his desire to become VP of marketing for a corporation. He generally dislikes women and as his secret loans began to manifest themselves, he became more and more abusive toward our daughter.
How many more details would you like to know?
My sympathies toward you, pom, if that is the truth, and somehow I think it probably is. However, there are often two sides to the story, but for the sake of this conversation I will take your word for it.
I don't need any more details.
pom, do you realize your ex-husband committed fraud and should be sitting in jail, that is if your story is correct. I hope at the very least that you got your name taken out of being responsible for the fraudulant loans? By the way, there is something fishy about your Power of Attorney claim, a Power of Attorney has to be signed and notarized, pom, your ex-husband cannot simply present himself as your POA without the appropriate paperwork and proof of it. You would have to have signed the paperwork, that is unless you are declared incompetent by a doctor or doctors. And any bank that lends money based upon fraudulant papers would also be liable for that money as well. Have you looked into all of the details of all of this? This all sounds sort of fishy to me.
It does make me wonder if you are needing some whipping boys to take out your lingering anger over your failed marriage, pom? I would suggest that you picking on folks here on this forum for inconsequential and imagined things will not help you. Perhaps you need the counseling to find out why you were drawn to a personality that was apparently highly flawed and dishonest, even corrupt? I find it interesting you have accused me of being abusive, while it was really your husband it is now revealed from you that you claim to have been abusive, that is if your story is accurate.
pom, perhaps my attitude toward you could change from being a political adversary to the idea that you need help, and if there is any way I can encourage you in the right direction, I would like to do that.