Thu 2 Aug, 2018 02:42 pm
Hello, I have a question regarding a girl I (sort of) know at work. I am trying to figure out if she likes me or possibly hates me or whatever. This is just my curiosity as she is an intern at her position and I am a temp in another department and we will be going our separate ways soon.
She seems to be a very friendly person. Everytime I see her with someone else or passing them by, she has a big smile and greets them. Any time I have been near her or have passed her by, she looks straight ahead or slightly down and has a little smile on her face but she never makes eye contact. This has happened several times. She kinda seems nervous but I can't tell. I've tried saying 'hi' to her but she won't look at me so I keep quiet. As you can imagine this has made getting to know her impossible. Again I am just curious at this point and very confused. Any insight into this would be appreciated.
She may be acting coy, in which it’s your job to be more assertive in your desire to interact with her. Take a chance and start up a conversation with her. You will know in 5 minutes if it’s worth pursuing.
She is disinterested in you (maybe already involved with someone) and has no reason to talk to you.
Saying hi at first is not that bad.