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Thu 28 Jun, 2018 02:12 am
Whenever I sign up in online dating sites, I also set a fake profile of a girl. The reason is that when I have a man’s profile, I tend to get frowned by my dating prospects -- men. Yes, I am gay but not the one who tries to look like a woman. Continuing, I found a foreign guy online. He’s cute and I messaged him. After a couple of minutes, he replied and that is when our daily conversations started. I never told him that I’m gay which is why I always turn down his video call requests. However, this is something different. He came to my country a few days ago and said he wanted to see me and everything. I got excited but it came to me that he doesn’t know I am not really a lady, but instead a lady trapped in a man’s body. LOL. kidding aside, how do I handle this?
@beautygurly,
Tell him the truth and start using Grindr and any other specifically gay-centric dating sites/apps.
Stop bullshitting and leading people on. It's not nice at all and it's also avoidance behavior on your part.
One of these days, a stunt like this could get you beat up or killed. It is breathtakingly appalling to do this sort of thing to people.
@beautygurly,
You lied. Now confess, and don’t do that again.
Why do you get “frowned upon” when presenting yourself as a male looking for another male?
You are on the wrong sites. Stop trying to be something you aren’t. Be honest, above all.