Thu 28 Jun, 2018 02:12 am
Whenever I sign up in online dating sites, I also set a fake profile of a girl. The reason is that when I have a man’s profile, I tend to get frowned by my dating prospects -- men. Yes, I am gay but not the one who tries to look like a woman. Continuing, I found a foreign guy online. He’s cute and I messaged him. After a couple of minutes, he replied and that is when our daily conversations started. I never told him that I’m gay which is why I always turn down his video call requests. However, this is something different. He came to my country a few days ago and said he wanted to see me and everything. I got excited but it came to me that he doesn’t know I am not really a lady, but instead a lady trapped in a man’s body. LOL. kidding aside, how do I handle this?
Tell him the truth and start using Grindr and any other specifically gay-centric dating sites/apps.
Stop bullshitting and leading people on. It's not nice at all and it's also avoidance behavior on your part.
One of these days, a stunt like this could get you beat up or killed. It is breathtakingly appalling to do this sort of thing to people.
You lied. Now confess, and don’t do that again.
Why do you get “frowned upon” when presenting yourself as a male looking for another male?
You are on the wrong sites. Stop trying to be something you aren’t. Be honest, above all.