Thank you Piffka for your thorough explanation.
For a while I was terrified, as I do use the word ramifications often in my business dealings, and I thought now: "Oh my God, they all must think I'm babbling about pruning my garden"
I'll pay more attention to this in future, thank you!
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Sozobe, little Jane was almost 3 years old when she
came into my life and for the first year thereafter I was
a nervous wreck, always questioning myself and at
the beginning she got away with murder, as I simply
was too much of a softy. She looked at me sadly with her
big beautiful eyes and I melted away.
It didn't take long though for my lessons to be learned,
yet it was so much harder then to implement discipline
and I think it took us twice as long to finally arrive at
a mutual consens, which is more relaxing for the both
of us.