georgeob1 wrote:
Don't know what tradition has to do with the question.
I mentioned
tradition because we have been bombarded with the language of "traditional definition of marriage", and the governemnts who oppose such unions wrangle themselves around that nebulous concept in an attempt to make gays exempt.[/quote]
georgeob1 wrote:A distinction between groups of otherwise like things exists or can be made if there is a meaningful difference between them, The passage of time doesn't change that at all.
So I don't misunderstand...elaborate on this please.
georgeob1 wrote:The key issue is whether or not it is appropriate to use a particular distinction as a basis for action. Clearly we have not thought for a very long time that differences in complexion are a suitable basis on which to assign seats in a bus.
And perhaps in some time, we will not see one's sexual orientation as the basis by which marriage licenses are doled out.
Clearly
the passage of time is relevant, as you have just indicated above.
georgeob1 wrote:However sexual unions of people of the same sex are meaningfully different from those between men and women, in that, children can be produced in the latter, while they cannot in the former. The production, care, and rearing of children have long been considered a proper concern of both community and government. This is an obviously fundamental and important consideration that, in my view, makes it entirely reasonable to act on this distinction. Certainly you have offered no persuasive argument that it would be unreasonable to take any action based on such a distinction.
My persuasive argument would follow the standard lines of an individual in my position: the
sole and identifying feature of marriage is
not to reproduce, married heterosexual couples are not required by law to procreate, marriages are about love, property ownership and transference, committment etc. which are not
unique to heterosexuals...and on and on.
This is standard fare, and I expect you have heard the contentions from both sides...likewise, I am unsatisfied with any of the arguments from those who sopport a ban on gay marriage.
georgeob1 wrote:Note that I am not denying the right for homosexuals to form such unions. I am merely affirming my right to note the distinction between them and marriages between men and women, and the community's right to act on that distinction, in keeping with its past practices with respect to the rearing of children in families
Bolded words wouldn't constitute...tradition, would they?
*edited to change quote attribution*