@Reyn,
Tomorrow is here, Rock. Yes, The Empty Chairs reminds us that we do miss many people.
Reyn, dear, I am just glad to see you back on our cyber radio. Clever is not needed to participate.
Well, folks, I never realized what a versatile man Don McLean is. He does quiet jazz as well as other lovely tunes as edgar and RH have already pointed out. Just got through listening to The Very Thought of You. WOW!
JPB, Autumn Leaves is a wonderful song. There is a poem that I cannot find where the poet describes the leaves as falling one by one and likens them to "...golden birds with broken wings..."
Thank you all for the great contributions.
Here's an interesting item from the world of science and psychology, folks.
Beyond your genes
Great if you happen to be one of the people born happy, right? Not exactly. Another major finding is that about half of our tendency toward happiness is genetic, while the rest is controlled by the individual.
Lyubomirsky and her colleagues analyzed studies on identical twins and other research and came to the conclusion that happiness is 50% genetic, 40% intentional and 10% circumstantial. "Half of your predisposition toward happiness you can't change," she says. "It's in your genes. Your circumstances -- where you live, your health, your work, your marriage -- can be tough to change. But most people are surprised that circumstances don't account for as much of their happiness as they think."
Life circumstances don't result in sustained happiness, she said, because we adapt. That new car, promotion or house feels great at first. Then we get used to it. An old but often-cited study found lottery winners were no happier than control groups after a year. That doesn't mean that getting out of a bad job or a terrible marriage won't give your happiness a boost. But sustaining that good feeling requires something else: deliberate control of how you act and think. That's the 40% intentional part that Lyubomirsky and others are most interested in.
Today is Jeff Foxworthy's birthday, and if this doesn't make us smile, nothing will.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Be4NDy4Wdg&feature=related