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Wed 19 Jul, 2017 03:31 am
So, hey.. actually I'm a girl and I've a boyfriend... we've been dating for 1 year. We are a really very happy couple.. But I have a problem... Actually... He's 9 years older than me... He's very mature.. I'm a mature person too but he thinks the opposite.. I'm sure that I'm mature as many friends, adults and also my family always tell me that I'm a very mature person.. I feel very bad when my boyfriend calls me immature.. And I can't say he's wrong because when I'm with him, I'm a bit childish.. I act different.. I don't wanna act childish with him but it happens automatically and I guess it's because I'm comfortable when I'm with him.. My questions here is what should I do to show him that I'm mature? It's hard to be mature around him and I don't know the reason behind this.. Can someone help?
Seems to me you enjoy being a bit childish with him, so why is that a problem? Does he resent that? Or does he enjoy it too? Many men like a "child woman", and like being childish themselves. Maybe he should relax a bit.
Maturity will come to you soon enough... Life beats us to pulp and we "mature" as a result. And then he will probably feel a bit of nostalgia for that time when you behaved as a "child woman". :-)
I agree with the above post.
It also may be your personality - light, fun and somewhat impulsive.
His temperament may be more thoughtful, cautious or even rigid.
Can you tell us what "immature" things you do to make him say that?
@TajVillain,
Observe yourself. What do you think he might think weird about you when you are with him? Maybe when you are with him, you wanted him to treat you like a baby. Sometimes it happens but try not to do it all the time. It might be annoying.
@TajVillain,
no it's not obligatry to be the right person that he likes be your own, u already said it, "I'm comfortable when I'm with him" that's my point of view,
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