Family Issues

An if you need to ask about any specific detail that I can provide you with, go ahead

So move out.

And maybe learn something about the behavior of gay people.

Spoiler alert: it's not all identical.

Man I don't live in the U.S and things don't work the same around here.
They still pay my college fees and I only went through 1 year and still have 2 to get a BA, so financially there's a ton of problems. But what I want solution for is this only, because there are many other problems, but I can take care of them. This on the other hand, I can't, that's why I'm here.

Then don't try to beat up someone who is paying your college fees. Wild and wacky concept, I know!

Exactly! That's why I asked for an unintentional way to do harm (the same way he uses) but with like real damage and pain. Because verbally he wouldn't understand, and he keeps doing it on purpose. He backs up for a while, then goes back at it again out of the blue.

anyway thank you for your input, let's see what other people have to say

I read your diatribe. I'm close to sorry I looked at, so brimming over with hate.

To me, he may or may not be the vile human - I'm not kidding, I take it as well possible either way.

You probably already know that your using your hating and wanting to sneakally harm badly is basically a stupid idea.

You may get help if you find a counselor, and one of those may understand where you come from.


I understand not wanting to be counseled, as I was so many years ago. I was right (long story). Very religious high up person from the local diocese was assigned to me. I almost remember the woman's lovely name. Started with Mary.
She highly doubted I was raped, I could tell. I suppose Catholic counselers hear that a lot.

Is this your birth father or step father? Not that it matters, but birth fathers don't tend to all of a sudden make these kinds of move on their children at such a late age.

What part of "stay 5 feet away from me at all times" does he not understand?

What other adults are around you that you can share this problem with? Is he doing this when there is no one else around?

Birth father, and he does it on purpose. He knows I hate it, and he mostly does it when I go in the kitchen to make a sandwich or fixing something. Once me, my mother and sisters were at the table and he was bringing something out of the oven and he pretended to put it on the table over me, I told him move he didn't I shoved him very slowly and told him look at how much space you got around me, fet off me. As soon as I finished he started yelling and went inside the living room how I don't deserve good treatment and ****, the my mom and sisters looked at me like I did something wrong. This was the only time I did it calmly because of the priors: once I was in the kitchen fixing the mashing machine and he was standing reall close, like a palm away ftom my face and looking down at the object so I shoved him real hard and yelled in his face, then he went inside the living room like a bitch and kept acting like a dog with a broken tail for a couple of days. Same situation happened beforhand, it became very repetitive. So it's either one of two things: he's gay as ****, most likely or he's trying to get on my nerve, but he's not in such a position that qualifies him for ******* around because my mother always steps on him and he's a faggot and can't tell her **** because she works also and she's the one paying for our education.

And by the way, I've reached a point now where I can't **** up or go to jail because of some faggot. Because before college I was a total mess at school and failed a lot of classes, now I'm improving everything so I need the college fees that they provide. If I was still stuck in my old ways I swear I would have popped him a long time ago.

It's not that I don't want to be counseled, but councelers or psychologists and specialists tend to give me either religious solutions or meditational bullsgit like teying to accept him and **** like that. Plus I can't afford it, so that's why I'm asking you guys.

K, I get your take.

Does anyone else have something to say?

When did all this start?

Has he actually SAID or ASKED you for sexuAl favors?

How is his health?

Do you have any diagnosis? ADD or austistic spectrum?

Do you allow anyone to get close to you, physically?

Sorry, but I'm not seeing any overt gay predatory action on his part. Please explain.

He quit his job 2 years ago, they had females there, then he moved to a new job where there are only males. Plus on his user on my laptop, I see his browsing history and it's nothing but ladyboy, transexual, gay and teen porn search. So I put install k9 web prrotection in my laptop because of the amount of viruses he got in my laptop and since then I started noticing this behavior. He hasn't asked for anything sexual verbatim, but it's too obvious man that he's a ******* faggot. Him and my mother aren't doing so well and he has no sexual release, but not my problem. And no man I don't have anything that you mentioned and I'm cool with NORMAL PEOPLE getting near me I dont mind it, it's just him man. He does the **** ans pretend it's normal and I want to **** him up somehow, someway, while making it seem unintentional, so he can **** the **** off.

I think you are angry that you found out your father was viewing sites that are upsetting to you and you have tranferred that into thinking he is coming on to you.

Have you told him that you found his browsing history and it now makes you uncomfortable? And that it has changed how you feel about him?

Like I said before, whats so hard about telling him to stay 3 feet away from you , physically.

Counseling would help but, yes, you will probably get the advice to " live and let live."

You are not the first person to be let down by the actions of a parent.

PS: what is your age and father's age?

No man, he knew that I found out his browsing histoty. He used to browse for porn all night till the morning and go in 3 or 4 websites because he didn't know the whole history shows, he used to think the last 3 or 4 links could be seen. And what about his pervertedness doesn't force anger. It's so disappointing when you find the ones in charge of you, and the ones that you should learn from are a bunch of ******* failures. Letting go many chances that they should've taken to make their life and your life better just because they're stupid and don't know how to do anything in life. And plus, someone forcing his gay sexuality on you and you can't fight back because they're the same people that provide you, because where I'm from rent is so ******* expensive even married people struggle with it, so i can't move anywhere since I have no job and haven't graduated yet. I'm 21 about to turn 22 now, and he's about to turn 50. All I'm looking for is to inflict as much damage and pain as possible but accidentally. I can't keep thinking and stressing about this gay ****, I'm fixing my life and I have a ton of things to worry about.