Please Help Urgent

Can someone or anyone lease provide me with subtle ways to get the fire going with your lady partner. Scenario : you are texting and You want to be seduced... pardon my expression but (mind fucked) you don't want him to come on too strong all at once. What does he does he write to you to make you intrigued , that ramps up the fire until you want him and nothing can stop it. what are the ways ladies and gentlemen that work for you and your relationship. what works?!!!