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The anti-gay marriage movement IS homophobic

 
 
Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:12 pm
I knew I should have included bait and switch in that previous post, Momma. That's the other tactic. Smile
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echi
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:43 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
There is nothing in the marriage laws that says a) you have to have a religious ceremony or b) that you have to love each other, or c) that you can't be homosexual. Most state laws do say that a) you must be of legal age or have a note from your parents; b) you must not be married to anybody else; c) you must not have any communicable STD; and d) you must marry somebody of the opposite sex.

These laws apply 100% equitably to all Americans regardless of race, ethnicity, sex, height, weight, religious beliefs, musical ability, or sexual orientation.


They do not apply equitably in regard to sex. As you pointed out, "you must marry somebody of the opposite sex". Is there a good reason for this law, or is it simply unjustified discrimination?
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:44 pm
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Your analogy doesn't work Dlowan because the US marriage laws discriminate against NOBODY.


Now this is just about the dumbest sh*t you have ever said.

You may morally agree with the fact that the law currently does not allow two people of the same sex to marry each other, but the law factually and empirically discriminates against those who wish to do so.

Cycloptichorn
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:49 pm
It is like she can all the pieces, but has some sort of neurological problem which renders her unable to see the picture!!!


I give up.


You can lead a horse etc...
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JTT
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:52 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
These laws apply 100% equitably to all Americans regardless of race, ethnicity, sex, height, weight, religious beliefs, musical ability, or sexual orientation.

I honestly don't see how you can't see that what I said is perfectly true.


The new Plessy v Ferguson crowd. Hey, you've got your own water fountain, don't try to use mine.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:52 pm
Or she's just nuts.


Whatever.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 03:56 pm
echi wrote:
Foxfyre wrote:
There is nothing in the marriage laws that says a) you have to have a religious ceremony or b) that you have to love each other, or c) that you can't be homosexual. Most state laws do say that a) you must be of legal age or have a note from your parents; b) you must not be married to anybody else; c) you must not have any communicable STD; and d) you must marry somebody of the opposite sex.

These laws apply 100% equitably to all Americans regardless of race, ethnicity, sex, height, weight, religious beliefs, musical ability, or sexual orientation.


They do not apply equitably in regard to sex. As you pointed out, "you must marry somebody of the opposite sex". Is there a good reason for this law, or is it simply unjustified discrimination?


It does apply equitably in regard to sex. Everybody who marries has to marry somebody of the opposite sex whether they are gay, straight, or something in between. So what discrimination is there in that?

As to the good reason for the law I have already laid out my case in some detail in this and other threads and will choose not to do so again. My reasons are irrelevent when it comes to the issue of discrimination. There is no discrimination when every single person is subject to the same identical rules regardless of race, ethnicity, sex, etc. etc. etc..

I have also laid out my case in some detail where some provisions in the law needs to be made for all people, gay , straight, or anything in between, who for whatever reason cannot or do not choose to marry to be able to form themselves into family units affording benefits of inheritance, hospital visitation, etc. that they currently lack. I see no reason why such arrangements could not be recognized across state lines just as marriage is recognized across state lines.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:02 pm
As to the rest of you, why don't you show how my reasoning is wrong instead of trotting out the same old insults? You really shoudl learn to be more original.

How much credibility should I give to people who can't articulate a reasoned argument but think beating up on the other person is valid debate?
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:15 pm
Because we can articulate reasoned arguments, Fox. You really should have realized that fact by now. I understand you won't write anything back about it; I wouldn't. But you may want to re-read some of your old posts and just ask yourself how much sense they really make in the face of logical examination.

But, here's a good and topical question:

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Everybody who marries has to marry somebody of the opposite sex whether they are gay, straight, or something in between. So what discrimination is there in that?


What discrimination is there in forcing people to use seperate water fountains, based upon race? There is no difference between race and sexual orientation in terms of robbing someone of their right to happiness or equality. How can you say one is wrong, but not the other?

Another question I challenge you to answer, man, I dare you: in what way are traditional or pre-existing marriages damaged by allowing gays to marry? In what way will society be damaged? If you cannot identify damage, there cannot be laws against it, and you know it.

Cycloptichorn
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:25 pm
Cycloptichorn wrote:
Because we can articulate reasoned arguments, Fox. You really should have realized that fact by now. I understand you won't write anything back about it; I wouldn't. But you may want to re-read some of your old posts and just ask yourself how much sense they really make in the face of logical examination.

But, here's a good and topical question:

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Everybody who marries has to marry somebody of the opposite sex whether they are gay, straight, or something in between. So what discrimination is there in that?


What discrimination is there in forcing people to use seperate water fountains, based upon race? There is no difference between race and sexual orientation in terms of robbing someone of their right to happiness or equality. How can you say one is wrong, but not the other?

Another question I challenge you to answer, man, I dare you: in what way are traditional or pre-existing marriages damaged by allowing gays to marry? In what way will society be damaged? If you cannot identify damage, there cannot be laws against it, and you know it.

Cycloptichorn


There is discrimination in forcing people to use separate water fountains. What does that have to do with marriage laws applying equally to everybody with nobody being forced to do anything any differently or denied any privilege that anybody else has? Nobody is forcing anybody to use separate licensing procedures or using separate ministers or judges or whatever to sign off on their marriage licenses. Everybody does it exactly the same. There is no comparison between that and separating the races. The marriage laws don't separate anybody. They're all the same. Homosexuals are not denied the right to marry exactly as everybody marries but they have to follow the same rules.

How society will or will not be damaged is a totally different discussion and one that involves why I oppose same sex marriages and you can look back through this thread and several others for that information.
It has absolutely nothing to do with whether the marriage laws as they currently exist are discriminatory.

There is no 'damage' if you make Ajax Street one way either, but there can be a law that says it will be one way. So your 'damage' theory doesn't hold up when compared to other laws that are intended to effect an efficient and orderly society. Marriage laws fit into that category.

Now you tell me how anybody is robbed of their right to happiness and equality by following the exact same rules in exactly the same way that 100% of Americans must follow?
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:34 pm
Ok Fox.

Let's see.


Somewhere back in the Pleistocene a butterfly farted differently, and that has made all the difference, in a cascade of subtly different events.



We are all here, just as we are now.


The laws in your country are identical...except......people are free to marry, regardles sof all those things...except they may only marry people of the same sex...


Is THAT discriminatory?


Yes or no.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:38 pm
dlowan wrote:
Ok Fox.

Let's see.


Somewhere back in the Pleistocene a butterfly farted differently, and that has made all the difference, in a cascade of subtly different events.



We are all here, just as we are now.


The laws in your country are identical...except......people are free to marry, regardles sof all those things...except they may only marry people of the same sex...


Is THAT discriminatory?


Yes or no.


If the law applies equally to everybody, there is no discrimination no matter what the law is. In order for there to be discrimination, somebody has to be treated differently than the other person is treated. If Citizen A is required to used drinking fountain A and Citizen B is required to use drinking fountain B because of their race, sex, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or whatever, then that would be discriminatory. But if both can use either, there is no discrimination.
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aktorist
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:38 pm
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That's it! I am hunting you down and you will become my cats' next meal! I answered your question honestly because you said you sincerely wanted to know what I believed.

Do you feel good about what you just did? Do you feel good that you got me to trust you enough to give you the honest to goodness truth about how I felt just so you could turn around and use it to prove the Bible says something you feel is discriminatory?!

I was honestly starting to like you and enjoy our little discussion. Thanx. Thanx a whole bunch. What a nice guy you are.


Actually, it's not related.

What I have said is true. If the Bible says that gay marriage is wrong, then is says something discriminatory.

Angel, why do you react so negatively to this?

After all, you believe all that God says, and if God says you should discriminate by saying that gay people should not be able to marry, then why do you react so negatively to this?
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:39 pm
Ok.


You ARE nuts, but at least you are consistently nuts right down to very last turtle!
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:39 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
Now you tell me how anybody is robbed of their right to happiness and equality by following the exact same rules in exactly the same way that 100% of Americans must follow?

Jim Crow laws didn't just prevent blacks from using whites-only facilities, they also prevented whites from using the blacks-only facilities. I suppose you'd say that was fair, right? And the anti-miscegenation laws prevented whites from marrying blacks just as much as it prevented blacks from marrying whites. Same rules for everybody.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:40 pm
Ok, Fox.


You ARE nuts, but at least you are consistently nuts right down to very last turtle!
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:40 pm
Just for my edification, Dlowan, lets see you articulate an argument showing that mine is in error.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:43 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
Your analogy doesn't work Dlowan because the US marriage laws discriminate against NOBODY.


This is a patent lie. Marriage laws, in almost all of the United States jurisdictions, discriminate against those who wish to marry people of the same gender. The issue is not yet settled in Massachusetts.
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aktorist
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:43 pm
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If the law applies equally to everybody, there is no discrimination no matter what the law is. In order for there to be discrimination, somebody has to be treated differently than the other person is treated. If Citizen A is required to used drinking fountain A and Citizen B is required to use drinking fountain B because of their race, sex, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or whatever, then that would be discriminatory. But if both can use either, there is no discrimination.


But the law does not apply equally if gay marriage is not legal.

For, then while the straight ones can marry in accordance to their orientation, the gay ones cannot. And that's the difference.
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2006 04:44 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
Just for my edification, Dlowan, lets see you articulate an argument showing that mine is in error.

You can start here.
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