I wrote
Quote:Nope. The Orwell I studied described the archetypical totalitarian society. Seems to me the marriage laws are quite even handed and equitably adminisered and democratically supported.
JTT writes
Quote:So were a whole host of race laws, FF, 'specially they was equitable like.
No, some race laws prevented people of separate races from marrying. A small minority, prevented from marrying outside their race, could well realistically be prevented from marrying at all. As there was no social or practical advantage for those laws to exist, the American people eliminated them.
There are currently no laws preventing anybody, gay or straight, from legally marrying anybody else, gay or straight, so long as both parties consent. The law applies equally to all.
I wrote
Until JTT can explain to me how the marriage laws deny him any right afforded to anybody else, his complaints of 'separate but equal' simply won't hold water. You guys keep trying to compare the issue with race. The laws that prevented one race from doing what another race was allowed to do were in fact discriminatory and were voted down. That didn't happen until a majority of Americans saw and recognized the inequities and knew that situation should be made right.
JTT responded
Quote:"The laws that prevent[ed] one group from doing what another group IS allowed to do ARE in fact discriminatory and SHOULD BE voted down."
Yes if that was the case. But no group is prevented by the marriage laws from doing what any other group is allowed to do.
"a majority of Americans saw" might be a bit of a stretch. If instead of a Supreme Court decision, it had been put to a vote, we can't really be certain how long segregation would have gone on.
I'll concede that one, though a majority of the people were in fact in favor of desegregation when it happened.
I wrote
Quote:Marriage laws are not discriminatory. Nobody is excluded or disenfranchised. And until more Americans see more good reasons to change them than they see good reasons to keep them as they are, change is not likely to occur.
JTT responded
Quote:Let's just analyse your words here, Foxy and you are, in the sly way.
"Marriage laws are not discriminatory" but those who have same sex partners can't expect any changes to get the same rights held by different sex partners "until more Americans see more good reasons to change them than they see good reasons to keep them as they are".
This is 1896 deja vu all over again.
Same sex partners can't expect to marry, that's true, so long as marriage is defined as a union between a man and a woman. That they can't get the same rights is on the table for negotiation if the proactivists would just bank the fires a bit and look at it from a fresh persepctive. The fact remains that EVERYBODY does have the right to marry according to existing laws whether they choose to do that or not.
JTT writes
Quote:And you have the temerity to suggest that you aren't a bigot! What gall, what unmitigated gall! Okay, you're just a lil'got.
I have been entirely reasonable in this discussion and have not made uncomplimentary or insulting aspersions on you or anybody else. I would appreciate the same courtesy.
I wrote
Quote:Meanwhile, most of us have an offer on the table to support a way to correct inequities between the married and unmarried. If everybody will be reasonable, I think that's doable.
Otherwise extremism begets extremism and we'll see more of the unfortunate initiatives to protect marriage that shut out considerations for the unmarried altogether.
And JTT writes
Quote:See what it boils down to? "You get uppity [asking for equal rights was always a clear sign of uppityness] and beatings, lynchins and other uppity defying measures shall ensue. Don't say we fair folk didn't warn ya none."
And I will leave you to ponder what you just said and point out you have not answered my question as to how you are discriminated against in any way by the current marriage laws.