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The anti-gay marriage movement IS homophobic

 
 
Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:27 am
Those who claim that there is no equal rights issue involved. I am not constrained by your "have you stopped beating your wife" style of interrogation.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:29 am
Oh are you giving up on the U.S. history of slavery and now going to the old 'have you stopped beating your wife' analogy? Okay, can you put that one into any kind of reasonable context that in any way relates to this discussion?
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:34 am
I've not used slavery as an analogy. I only ever discuss slavery when someone else brings it up.

You asked: "Those who define it as the law defines it? Or those who wish it to be something other than it is?" That is a feeble and silly attempt to get me to accept your terms of debate, and therefore qualifies as the "have you stopped beating your wife" dodge. I'm not going to fall for crap like that. That was pretty damned simple-minded of you, if you seriously thought i could be shoe-horned into your arguments.

This is an issue of fundamental rights being denied to an entire class of people, whether or not you can get that through your skull.
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JTT
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:36 am
Foxfyre wrote:
Nope. The Orwell I studied described the archetypical totalitarian society. Seems to me the marriage laws are quite even handed and equitably adminisered and democratically supported.

So were a whole host of race laws, FF, 'specially they was equitable like.

Until JTT can explain to me how the marriage laws deny him any right afforded to anybody else, his complaints of 'separate but equal' simply won't hold water. You guys keep trying to compare the issue with race. The laws that prevented one race from doing what another race was allowed to do were in fact discriminatory and were voted down. That didn't happen until a majority of Americans saw and recognized the inequities and knew that situation should be made right.

"The laws that prevent[ed] one group from doing what another group IS allowed to do ARE in fact discriminatory and SHOULD BE voted down."

"a majority of Americans saw" might be a bit of a stretch. If instead of a Supreme Court decision, it had been put to a vote, we can't really be certain how long segregation would have gone on.


Marriage laws are not discriminatory. Nobody is excluded or disenfranchised. And until more Americans see more good reasons to change them than they see good reasons to keep them as they are, change is not likely to occur.

Let's just analyse your words here, Foxy and you are, in the sly way.

"Marriage laws are not discriminatory" but those who have same sex partners can't expect any changes to get the same rights held by different sex partners "until more Americans see more good reasons to change them than they see good reasons to keep them as they are".

This is 1896 deja vu all over again.

And you have the temerity to suggest that you aren't a bigot! What gall, what unmitigated gall! Okay, you're just a lil'got.


Meanwhile, most of us have an offer on the table to support a way to correct inequities between the married and unmarried. If everybody will be reasonable, I think that's doable.

Otherwise extremism begets extremism and we'll see more of the unfortunate initiatives to protect marriage that shut out considerations for the unmarried altogether.

See what it boils down to? "You get uppity [asking for equal rights was always a clear sign of uppityness] and beatings, lynchins and other uppity defying measures shall ensue. Don't say we fair folk didn't warn ya none."

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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:40 am
No, not silly at all. Setanta and Chrissee accused me of using Orwellian tactics and you narrowed that down to the doublethink component. I am sticking to marriage as it is defined by law in my state and in most states. But rather than address the specific question of how you or anybody is discriminated against or denied an inalienable or lawfully granted right by the current marriage laws, many continue to throw up the comparison with racial discrimination.

I fail to see how I am employing doublespeak or doublethink there. I am saying it exactly as I see it. And so far nobody has been able to formulate a coherant argument for how I am wrong.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:45 am
I did not accuse you of using Orwellian "tactics." I do assert that you continue to employ Orwellian double-think to contend that all people have the same rights with regard to marriage--that is a base canard.

That you fail to see that will surprise no one.
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:48 am
Foxfyre wrote:
Oh are you giving up on the U.S. history of slavery and now going to the old 'have you stopped beating your wife' analogy? Okay, can you put that one into any kind of reasonable context that in any way relates to this discussion?


OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

setanta is not using the "stopped beating your wife" analogy.

He is accusing you of doing it!

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, louise!
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:49 am
All pigs are created equal...
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:49 am
...but some are more equal than others.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:50 am
Oooo . . . there's another oldie but goody from our dear George . . .
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:50 am
Setanta wrote:

That you fail to see that will surprise no one.


Ain't that the truth? This is an exercise in futility but it is like seeing a train wreck, you jsut can't turn away.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:53 am
That you fail to see that you just employed Orwellian double-think is a pretty base canard in itself. Smile

You'll have to show me how anything I've said about marriage is even misrepresented, much moreso wrong, to convince me that I have inadvertently or intentionally misled anybody or employed double-think or double-speak of any kind.

So tell me. What right do you or anybody not have under the current marriage laws? Until you guys have the integrity to answer that question, you are just spitting in the wind so far as making a case for how you want the laws to be.
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:53 am
Setanta wrote:
Oooo . . . there's another oldie but goody from our dear George . . .


"more equal than others" This is almost exactly the double-speak that Fox is employing, and the fact that he cannot see it is frightening. I don't think he ever even read Orwell.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:55 am
That particular critter is a vixen, Chrissee . . . she cannot see it . . .
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 08:57 am
Yeah, I guess the cute little avatar should have tipped me off.
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 09:01 am
Chrissee wrote:
Chrissee wrote:
Goebbels would be proud as well:

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...people will believe a big lie sooner than a little one; and if you repeat it frequently enough people will sooner or later believe it.


Luckily, in this case, the strategy is not working. I guess that any good lie requires a bit of truth in it to get people to believe. In this case, there is not a scintilla of truth in this absurd, illogical and Orwellian contention.



This is futile.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 09:04 am
Foxfyre wrote:
So tell me. What right do you or anybody not have under the current marriage laws? Until you guys have the integrity to answer that question, you are just spitting in the wind so far as making a case for how you want the laws to be.


The right to marry someone of the same gender. You just don't get it, do you? We have the integrity, and it does not surprise me that you stoop to suggesting that anyone here doesn't.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 09:09 am
I wrote
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Nope. The Orwell I studied described the archetypical totalitarian society. Seems to me the marriage laws are quite even handed and equitably adminisered and democratically supported.


JTT writes
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So were a whole host of race laws, FF, 'specially they was equitable like.


No, some race laws prevented people of separate races from marrying. A small minority, prevented from marrying outside their race, could well realistically be prevented from marrying at all. As there was no social or practical advantage for those laws to exist, the American people eliminated them.

There are currently no laws preventing anybody, gay or straight, from legally marrying anybody else, gay or straight, so long as both parties consent. The law applies equally to all.

I wrote
Until JTT can explain to me how the marriage laws deny him any right afforded to anybody else, his complaints of 'separate but equal' simply won't hold water. You guys keep trying to compare the issue with race. The laws that prevented one race from doing what another race was allowed to do were in fact discriminatory and were voted down. That didn't happen until a majority of Americans saw and recognized the inequities and knew that situation should be made right.

JTT responded
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"The laws that prevent[ed] one group from doing what another group IS allowed to do ARE in fact discriminatory and SHOULD BE voted down."


Yes if that was the case. But no group is prevented by the marriage laws from doing what any other group is allowed to do.

"a majority of Americans saw" might be a bit of a stretch. If instead of a Supreme Court decision, it had been put to a vote, we can't really be certain how long segregation would have gone on.

I'll concede that one, though a majority of the people were in fact in favor of desegregation when it happened.

I wrote
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Marriage laws are not discriminatory. Nobody is excluded or disenfranchised. And until more Americans see more good reasons to change them than they see good reasons to keep them as they are, change is not likely to occur.


JTT responded
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Let's just analyse your words here, Foxy and you are, in the sly way.

"Marriage laws are not discriminatory" but those who have same sex partners can't expect any changes to get the same rights held by different sex partners "until more Americans see more good reasons to change them than they see good reasons to keep them as they are".

This is 1896 deja vu all over again.


Same sex partners can't expect to marry, that's true, so long as marriage is defined as a union between a man and a woman. That they can't get the same rights is on the table for negotiation if the proactivists would just bank the fires a bit and look at it from a fresh persepctive. The fact remains that EVERYBODY does have the right to marry according to existing laws whether they choose to do that or not.

JTT writes
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And you have the temerity to suggest that you aren't a bigot! What gall, what unmitigated gall! Okay, you're just a lil'got.


I have been entirely reasonable in this discussion and have not made uncomplimentary or insulting aspersions on you or anybody else. I would appreciate the same courtesy.

I wrote
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Meanwhile, most of us have an offer on the table to support a way to correct inequities between the married and unmarried. If everybody will be reasonable, I think that's doable.

Otherwise extremism begets extremism and we'll see more of the unfortunate initiatives to protect marriage that shut out considerations for the unmarried altogether.


And JTT writes
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See what it boils down to? "You get uppity [asking for equal rights was always a clear sign of uppityness] and beatings, lynchins and other uppity defying measures shall ensue. Don't say we fair folk didn't warn ya none."


And I will leave you to ponder what you just said and point out you have not answered my question as to how you are discriminated against in any way by the current marriage laws.
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JTT
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 09:12 am
Foxfyre wrote:


So tell me. What right do you or anybody not have under the current marriage laws?

How many times does it have to be pointed out to you, Foxfyre? This "gold standard" is being denied to a large group of people SIMPLY because of their sexual orientation.

Until you guys have the integrity to answer that question, you are just spitting in the wind so far as making a case for how you want the laws to be.

All anyone is asking for is for people to be treated equally. It's folks like you who are content to see discriminatory laws be put in place to make people second class citizens. You've said so yourself in a number of postings now and when I point out your biogtry, you ignore it.

Why is it so difficult for you to understand that thinking people don't share your myopic vision of equality. Equality is NOT a half measure or a three-quarter or a nine-tenths measure; equality is equality.


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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Mon 4 Jul, 2005 09:13 am
Pssst Setanta. NOBODY has the right to marry somebody of the same gender. When EVERYBODY irrespective of race, gender, economic status, sexual orientation, etc. is subject to the same rule, there is no discrimination or violation of equal rights.

And for now, I'll leave the claque to their dumpster diving until they get that out of their system.
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