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The anti-gay marriage movement IS homophobic

 
 
mesquite
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 11:37 am
Foxfyre wrote:
If the uptight religious who oppose homosexuality would just shut up and not interfere, and if the uptiight pro-gay-marriage crowd would just be willing to compromise on a single word (pick another word for marriage), everybody could have what they want and need and that would go a huge way toward creating a more tolerant and compatible environment for everybody.

The all or nothing approach to the issue is not likely to get it done in this decade or even maybe in our lifetime.


Foxfyre, Clearly the backers of the Arizona iniative would not be willing to compromise on any word.

Drive is on to ban gay marriage
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● Text of the amendment it proposes:

● To preserve and protect marriage in this state, only a union between one man and one woman shall be valid and recognized as a marriage by this state or its political subdivisions and no legal status for unmarried persons shall be created or recognized by this state or its political subdivisions that is similar to that of marriage.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 12:27 pm
And, again, that is unfortunate, Mesquite. When either side pushes what is unfair or unreasonable for the other, the remedy is often extreme and excessive such as you are seeing in that initiative in Arizona.

It is not unreasonable (or homophobic or anything else) for people to want to keep the traditional definition of marriage for all the reasons that have been posted all over A2K for months now.

It is also not unreasonable that those who choose not to enter into a traditional marriage to need similar protections and benefits afforded in the marriage contract.

Everybody I know personally wants the defnition of marriage to remain unchanged and that includes my gay friends out of respect for their parents if for no other reason.

Everybody I know personally also has no problems with contractual relationships forming family units by any others as well.

All that ever needed to happen to accomplish that, I think, was non interference by the pro-marriage crowd and a willingness to compromise on one word by the pro-same sex union crowd.

It takes tolerance from both sides to get there.
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mesquite
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 01:37 pm
If the biggoted idiots that are pushing this iniative only wanted to preserve the "definition of marriage", then they could have easily done that with the first part of the iniative.
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To preserve and protect marriage in this state, only a union between one man and one woman shall be valid and recognized as a marriage by this state or its political subdivisions


If they had left it at that, there would have been much more support, but no, they want much more. They want to impose their own religious based morality on the entire population of the State of Arizona. Let the witch hunts begin.
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and no legal status for unmarried persons shall be created or recognized by this state or its political subdivisions that is similar to that of marriage.


Edited to remove personal derogatory comments.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 01:41 pm
Could you please quote back to me anything that I said that supported this initiative in Arizona, Mesquite? You seem to go out of your way to read whatever you wish into what I say even if it is the exact opposite of the way you read it.

What you failed to notice was that I was on your side on this one even though we don't agree on all components of the issue.
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Debra Law
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 01:44 pm
mesquite wrote:

Foxfyre, Clearly the backers of the Arizona iniative would not be willing to compromise on any word.

Drive is on to ban gay marriage
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● Text of the amendment it proposes:

● To preserve and protect marriage in this state, only a union between one man and one woman shall be valid and recognized as a marriage by this state or its political subdivisions and no legal status for unmarried persons shall be created or recognized by this state or its political subdivisions that is similar to that of marriage.


The article pointed out that the proposed amendment suffers from the same defects that caused a federal district court in Nebraska to rule that the Nebraska anti-gay marriage amendment was unconstitutional.

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Less clear is whether such a proposal, even if approved, would withstand a court challenge. Just last week, a federal court in Nebraska voided a similar provision in that state.

Judge Joseph Bataillon said the amendment works to deprive certain people, namely gays, of their prerogative to petition their state and local lawmakers for various rights, such as domestic partner benefits.

The Arizona measure, if adopted, would have the same restrictions, blocking even state legislators from deciding unmarried couples are entitled to certain rights currently enjoyed only by those who are married.


The right to petition government for redress of grievances is protected by the First Amendment and applicable to the states via the Fourteenth Amendment. However, the proposed state constitutional amendment completely forecloses any possibility that homosexuals would otherwise have to petition for redress of grievances.

See Article on Nebraska Constitutional Amendment:

Federal Court Strikes Down Nebraska Marriage Amendment

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In a decision that has been anticipated for several months, Nebraska federal district court judge Joseph Battaillon on May 12 struck down the Nebraska marriage amendment, also called Section 29, which was passed by 70 percent of Nebraska voters in the November 2004 election, on the basis that it violated the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, the equal protection clause of the 14th Amendment, and constituted a "bill of attainder" (see explanation below) prohibited by the U.S. Constitution.

The amendment consists of two parts: 1) a definition of marriage; and 2) invalidity and non-recognition of same-sex civil unions, domestic partnerships, or anything similar. It reads as follows:

Only marriage between a man and a woman shall be valid or recognized in Nebraska. The uniting of two persons of the same sex in a civil union, domestic partnership, or other similar same-sex relationship shall not be valid or recognized in Nebraska.

The court found a First Amendment violation in the second sentence of the state amendment because it effectively foreclosed specific classes of people or groups from seeking redress for grievances (i.e., asking the legislature to fix problems) or attempting to advocate for legislation relating to benefits for same-sex couples. This is the same reasoning the U.S. Supreme Court used in the 1996 case of Romer v. Evans.1

The equal-protection claim also relies on Romer for striking down the marriage amendment. The court found that Section 29 was "indistinguishable from the Colorado constitutional amendment at issue in Romer," in that it bears no rational relationship to any legitimate state interest, and the court concludes that "the intent and purpose of the amendment is based on animus against this class." It denies access to the political process to a singled-out group. . . .

The case is styled Citizens for Equal Protection v. Bruning, 4:03CV3155.



See also:

The One-Year Anniversary of Same-Sex Marriage in the United States: Some Thoughts on Recent Developments, and on the Future

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Perhaps the most interesting development to dot the landscape was a ruling issued just last week by a federal court in Nebraska. The court, in Citizens for Equal Protection, Inc. v. Bruning, struck down an amendment to Nebraska's constitution containing a broad ban on recognition for same-sex relationships.

Section 29 of the Nebraska constitution, adopted by voter referendum in 2000, provides that "[o]nly marriage between a man and a woman shall be valid or recognized in Nebraska. The uniting of two persons of the same sex in a civil union, domestic partnership, or other similar same-sex relationship shall not be valid or recognized in Nebraska."

This ban is especially troubling - as the Nebraska federal court found - because it smacks of bias, pure and simple. Rather than purporting simply to "protect" the institution of marriage by limiting it to heterosexual couples, it reaches out to try to invalidate any possible legal status another state might confer on same-sex couples, no matter how unlike marriage it might be.

Although more than four-fifths of the states ban same-sex marriage by statute or constitutional amendment, fewer than ten go beyond banning "marriage" itself. But Nebraska is part of the minority that has enacted more extensive bans on legal recognition of same-sex relationships. The meaning of scope of these various provisions is unknown, since they are essentially unprecedented. Thus, the Nebraska case was especially significant.

The case arose because Nebraska's attorney general opined that a bill to allow the domestic partner of a deceased person the power to authorize an anatomical gift, or dispose of remains, would violate the constitutional ban on legal recognition of a same-sex relationship.

If this interpretation is correct, then the Nebraska ban not only prohibits same-sex marriage, but it may also bar a whole host of other protections as well. Indeed, in the suit, the plaintiffs argued that Section 29 interfered with a variety of federally protected constitutional rights.

The district court agreed and struck down the provision on multiple grounds.

First, the court wrote, Section 29 interferes with two rights of association protected by the First Amendment - the right of expressive association and the right of intimate association. Both are implicated by Nebraska's ban, which expressly forbids certain forms of intimate association, and interferes with the ability of like-minded individuals to associate and petition the government for redress of their grievances.

It is the unusual breadth of the Nebraska provision that got it into trouble. A mere ban on same-sex marriage could be more easily (though not necessarily correctly) sustained under federal constitutional principles, since most courts would be likely to find that states have a compelling interest in protecting the institution of marriage. But, here, the ban on same-sex relationships is so broad as to call the state's motives into question.

In reaching its holding, the Nebraska federal district court drew on the U.S. Supreme Court's holding in Romer v. Evans. There, the High Court struck down an amendment to the Colorado Constitution that prohibited municipalities from adopting any law to protect gay rights. In Romer, the Court found especially objectionable the "special disability" that had been placed on gays and lesbians: They could only seek governmental protection through constitutional amendment - as opposed to the usual, majority-rules legislative process. This was truly an imposition of second-class citizenship.

The Nebraska federal court found Section 29 of the Nebraska Constitution objectionable for similar reasons: As the court explained, a "blanket prospective prohibition on any type of legal recognition of a same-sex relationship [such as Nebraska's] not only denies the benefits of favorable legislation to these groups, it prohibits them from even asking for such benefits." This prohibition "creates a barrier to participation in the political process that no minority population is ever likely to surmount."

On this same analysis, the Nebraska federal district court concluded that Section 29 violates the federal Equal Protection Clause as well. In Romer, the Supreme Court concluded that the constitutional amendment must fail even the most deferential standard of review, if it is borne solely of animosity to a particular group. The Nebraska court ruled that the provision here was similarly unconstitutional.

In addition, the court held that Section 29 constitutes an unlawful Bill of Attainder. Article 1, section 9 of the federal constitution prohibits legislatures from inflicting punishment on an identifiable person or group without judicial trial. This is a fundamental part of the American justice system: Crimes must be defined by statute, and convictions must be the result of trial by jury.

In the Nebraska court's view, "a legislative act that singles out a group and restricts its ability to effect political change amounts to punishment and can be a bill of attainder." The court viewed the nature of the deprivation embodied in Section 29 to constitute punishment, since it effectively disenfranchises them from seeking legislative protection for their relationships.

(If one doubts the validity of the court's logic, it's worth considering that felons are, in many states, deprived of the vote. In impairing the right of those in same-sex relationships to participate in the political process, Nebraska thus imposes the very kind of punishment that one must usually commit a serious crime to incur.)

Section 29, the court concluded, was intended to prohibit the ability of gays and lesbians to "effectuate changes opposed by the majority" and is thus invalid.

This ruling could potentially be very significant - if federal courts in other states follow its logic. If so, then even those states that seem locked into a position on same-sex marriage, may see their apparently-entrenched positions uprooted.
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 09:31 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
And, again, that is unfortunate, Mesquite. When either side pushes what is unfair or unreasonable for the other, the remedy is often extreme and excessive such as you are seeing in that initiative in Arizona.

It is not unreasonable (or homophobic or anything else) for people to want to keep the traditional definition of marriage for all the reasons that have been posted all over A2K for months now.



Yes it is.
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blatham
 
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Reply Fri 20 May, 2005 10:38 pm
Thanks debra. Your expertise and your care in laying out the relevant issues is appreciated very much. It isn't terribly surprising that these folks are in high judicial-denigration mode - the courts and constitution being awkwardly in their way.
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Sat 21 May, 2005 02:51 pm
Not only the law but even the Catholic Church is beginning to inch to the undeniable conclusion that not only are same sex marriages moral and not sinful but they are a GOOD thing. My pastor,a canon lawyer, said that the official stance against gay unions is absurd. Of course, official teaching dictates that the optimum state for all unmarrieds is chastity but it would be absurd to expect everyone to adhere to that. Since virtually none of us unmarried people can be expected to reamin 100% chaste, most arer guided by formation of conscience to determine whether or not any act is sinful.
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Ethel2
 
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Reply Fri 27 May, 2005 06:37 am
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Here is Thompson speaking against the [Texas] Legislature's recent folly of putting a superfluous anti-gay marriage measure into the state constitution:

"I have been a member of this august body for three decades, and today is one of the all-time low points. We are going in the wrong direction, in the direction of hate and fear and discrimination. Members, we all know what this is about; this is the politics of divisiveness at it's worst, a wedge issue that is meant to divide. ...

"Let's look at what this amendment does not do: It does not give one Texas citizen meaningful tax relief. It does not reform or fully fund our education system. It does not restore one child to CHIP [Children's Health Insurance Program] who was cut from health insurance last session. It does not put one dime into raising Texas' Third World access to health care. It does not do one thing to care for or protect one elderly person or one child in this state. In fact, it does not even do anything to protect one marriage.

"Members, this bill is about hate and fear and discrimination. . . . When I was a small girl, white folks used to talk about 'protecting the institution of marriage' as well. What they meant was if people of my color tried to marry people of Mr. Chisum's color, you'd often find the people of my color hanging from a tree. . . . Fifty years ago, white folks thought interracial marriages were 'a threat to the institution of marriage.'

"Members, I'm a Christian and a proud Christian. I read the good book and do my best to live by it. I have never read the verse where it says, 'Gay people can't marry.' I have never read the verse where it says, 'Thou shalt discriminate against those not like me.' I have never read the verse where it says, 'Let's base our public policy on hate and fear and discrimination.' Christianity to me
is love and hope and faith and forgiveness -- not hate and discrimination.

"I have served in this body a lot of years, and I have seen a lot of promises broken. . . . So . . . now that blacks and women have equal rights, you turn your hatred to homosexuals, and you still use your misguided reading of the Bible to justify your hatred. You want to pass this ridiculous amendment so you can go home and brag -- brag about what? Declare that you saved the people of Texas from what?

"Persons of the same sex cannot get married in this state now. Texas law does not now recognize same-sex marriages, civil unions, religious unions, domestic partnerships, contractual arrangements or Christian blessings entered into in this state -- or anywhere else on this planet Earth.

"If you want to make your hateful political statements then that is one thing -- but the Chisum amendment does real harm. It repeals the contracts that many single people have paid thousands of dollars to purchase to obtain medical powers of attorney, powers of attorney, hospital visitation, joint ownership and support agreements. You have lost your way. This is obscene. . . .
http://www.creators.com/opinion_show.cfm?columnsName=miv
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blatham
 
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Reply Mon 20 Jun, 2005 10:06 am
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What's Their Real Problem With Gay Marriage? (It's the Gay Part)
By RUSSELL SHORTO
Published: June 19, 2005

...But for the anti-gay-marriage activists, homosexuality is something to be fought, not tolerated or respected. I found no one among the people on the ground who are leading the anti-gay-marriage cause who said in essence: ''I have nothing against homosexuality. I just don't believe gays should be allowed to marry.'' Rather, their passion comes from their conviction that homosexuality is a sin, is immoral, harms children and spreads disease. Not only that, but they see homosexuality itself as a kind of disease, one that afflicts not only individuals but also society at large and that shares one of the prominent features of a disease: it seeks to spread itself.
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/06/19/magazine/19ANTIGAY.html?
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Ethel2
 
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Reply Mon 20 Jun, 2005 11:51 am
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THe banning of gay marriage is really unfortunate because it makes it so much tougher to arrive at a compromise and subsequent win-win proposition.

If everybody could be broad minded about this whole thing, one side could see how important the traditional definition of marriage is to a great many people and allow them to have that. And everybody could understand the need for same sex couples and others to have the protections and benefits inherent in the marriage contract.


Happy day! I agree with Foxfire and since this is so rare, regardless of all the caveats that go with my agreement.......I feel compelled to acknowledge it.

I think strategically, the gay marriage issue would have been more satisfactorily resolved for most Americans, had it been approached incrementally. It was a mistake I think to push for "marriage" now. It's unrealistic and possibly sadistic to expect most Americans to make that big leap in one step. It exposes homophobic fears. And overexposure to basic fears will always cause resistance. One shouldn't be monkeying around too deeply with another's defenses, it only defeats the purpose and causes pain.
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thethinkfactory
 
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Reply Mon 20 Jun, 2005 07:53 pm
McGentrix wrote:
No, gay sex is not a moral issue. Gays can have all the sex they want. Gay marriage, is the issue.

Marriage has too much baggage attached to it. As I have explained in the past, and will continue doing so in the future, forcing the population to accept gay marriage is not the direction the gay community should be tacking. They should be trying to get a legal social contract that allows gays the equivalent rights in partership that a marriage does now.

Were I a homosexual, I would be demanding that ALL unions be performed thusly. Allowing the religious to keep the idea of marriage whole, but leveling the playing field for all.


I agree and disagree with McGentrix. I agree that Marriage can be held as a hetro thing (I hate the restriction - I think it is backwards but our majority decides on these things) but the provisions that are put in that are superflous (As Debra pointed out) are specifically anti homosexual in nature.

With this said - the hetro / homohaters that vote for this sort of bill are not JUST trying to protect thier precious marriage rights (of which they f*ck up over 60% of time) but intend to go further and ban any civil union from ever being recognized in the states as a whole.

This is simple homohatred, exclusion at broad levels based on sexuality, and not in the option of protecting marriage but hating on gays.

With that said - some of the most ardent supporters of these measures turn out to be homosexuals themselves that obviously hate thier homosexual tendencies. (Jim West and company) It is either based on fear or hatred - like all other anti-whatever-group-I-don't-like bill.

TF
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chiczaira
 
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Reply Tue 21 Jun, 2005 12:31 am
Blatham says tha tthe Anti-gay marriage Activists do not say-I have nothing against Homosexuality, I just do not want Homosexuals to marry. He does say that the Anti-gay marriage Activists do believe that Homosexuality is a sin, immoral, harms children and spreads disease.

Blatham has succeeeded in demonizing the thousands who have voted for DOMA.

However, he is not correct. Not all of the people who are in favor of DOMA and have voted for DOMA believe that Homosexuality is a sin, is immoral, harms children and spreads disease.

Some of them actually believe that if consenting adults wish to engage in sexual activity in their bedrooms, the "sin"( if it is a sin) and the "Immorality"( if it is immoral) must be judged by their Creator( if they believe in a Creator).

The spread of disease is a problem which must be solved in the homosexual community through education.

Harms Children? Perhaps.

Let us examine this latter point.

If I knew my child was going to go into a classroom in which there was a fairly good chance of contacting a case of TB, I would not send him to school.

However, there is a chance, in some public schools today that my child would learn that Homosexuality is not only to be tolerated but approved as a viable life style.

I think that homosexuals must not be excoriated or demeaned. Their social lives are thier own, but I am convinced that they should not attempt to convince the most innocent, the children, that Homosexuality is a viable life style.

I am sure that Blatham is aware that there is a great deal of research on the origins of Homosexuality, the consensus of which concludes that Homosexuality is around 50% heritable and 50% environmentally caused.

If these studies are correct, and I have seen no real evidence to contradict them, it is to my benefit and my child's benefit to streneously oppose the teaching that homosexuality is a viable and approved life style in our Public Schools.

I am not aware of the complete genetic background of my child. I am not aware of any homosexuals in either my wife's extended family or mine, but that is not a complete safeguard since there are recessive genes.

I am aware that Environmental influences may tip a person who has a genetic propensity to the behavior in a homosexual direction.

Inasmuch as I am so selfish as to desire that my child carries on the family name, I am going to try to protect him from any influences which may harm him.

In the meantime, Homosexuals may indeed practice their proclivities in their well appointed ghettos. I would never attempt to shut them down. But I will combat the use of Public Schooling for purposes of advancing the Homosexual cause.
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thethinkfactory
 
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Reply Tue 21 Jun, 2005 05:26 pm
If homosexuals love and respect each other and honor marriage - Why is this not a viable lifestyle?

I think the hetero's have jacked up marriage so bad - why not let the homo's give it a whirl.

TTF
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chiczaira
 
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Reply Tue 21 Jun, 2005 05:40 pm
It is not a VIABLE life style for most of us in the rest of the society who wish to have heirs.

We won't have any if the homosexual life style is looked on as viable, acceptable and even desirable.

Again, I would refuse to have my child attend a school class in which active cases of TB had been discovered and left alone untreated. I similarly would protect my child from the prosleytising that goes on in some school district fearing that he would become homosexual.

It is my right to set the conditions under which I wish to have my child educated.

Live and let live!

Homosexuals must accept the fact that the nation, at least at this time, will not endorse homosexual legal marriage.

Probably for the reason I have outlined above.
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Lightwizard
 
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Reply Tue 21 Jun, 2005 07:34 pm
You certainly do have airs.
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pragmatic
 
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Reply Tue 21 Jun, 2005 08:15 pm
sorry to interrupt here, just wanted to say that my study of homosexual marriages in the australian context is complete and has been posted (but in a shorter form than my original copy.) Start reading from this post here:

http://www.able2know.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=1409714#1409714

pragmatic
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chiczaira
 
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Reply Tue 21 Jun, 2005 11:02 pm
I am deeply disappointed that I have not been driven away in shame by the righteous sword of Justice usually brandished by that heroic opponent of bias in all of its forms----the august Blatham.

I would have thought that by this time, his tremendous erudition would have rebutted all of my "airs" as Lightwizard put it, and the world would be set right again. I do hope that I have not stunned him with what he might consider an arcane but irrefutable point.
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Lightwizard
 
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Reply Wed 22 Jun, 2005 09:34 am
Not stunned, considering the source. Be careful how high in the sky your nose is turned up, the air is thinner up there.
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Wolf ODonnell
 
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Reply Wed 22 Jun, 2005 10:37 am
chiczaira wrote:
It is not a VIABLE life style for most of us in the rest of the society who wish to have heirs.


Which is just as well that homosexuality cannot be spread and that a minority are homosexual, is it not?

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Again, I would refuse to have my child attend a school class in which active cases of TB had been discovered and left alone untreated. I similarly would protect my child from the prosleytising that goes on in some school district fearing that he would become homosexual.


Sexuality is not something that can be spread. Current scientific evidence shows that homosexuality occurs through a combination of genetics and environment. Chances are if the prosleytising you speak of is going on those that are converted were probably homosexual to begin with.

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It is my right to set the conditions under which I wish to have my child educated.


But does your right supercede the rights of those pupils who might be bullied for their sexuality, something over which they have no control over?

(However, I am not entirely sure of the education system in the US, so I have no idea how far this "homosexuality is OK and nothing to be ridiculed or made fun of" movement goes. I am, of course, assuming the policies stop short of converting people to homosexuality).

Of course, this post (mine) goes into the fallacy of there being only heterosexuals, bisexuals and homosexuals. I think that Kinsey's Scale of Sexuality is the most accurate portrayal of sexuality with different grades of attraction - a spectrum of sexuality, if you will.
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