Wiyaka wrote: That, gentle people, is the true reason that we would like to be able to legally marry: not religion, not trying to convince others that we're better, not because we're a minority, but it would allow us the opportunty to have the same rights and benefits others take for granted.
This, and the paragraphs preceding it, is a compelling moral and political argument why gay marriage is a good idea. If I was an American, and a politician wanted to introduce gay marriage by statute, he would have my support. If somebody proposed an amendment to the state constitution to say, "the right to marry shall not be abridged on account of the couple's sexual orientation", I would vote for it. But making a moral and political argument is one thing. Making a constitutional argument is another.
Wiyaka wrote:The US Constitution says that this country was formed so that all people are entitled to certain inalienable rights, life ,liberty, and the persuit of happiness.
No it doesn't. You are quoting the Declaration of Independence, not the constitution. Which nicely illustrates the point I made above about moral and political reasoning vs. constitutional reasoning. Invoking the Declaration of Independence is a perfectly good moral argument, but not a constitutional one. Americans tend to have this funny habit to mistake their constitution as a document of moral philosophy, to think that everything for which there is a compelling moral case, must be constitutional, and that everything against which there is a compelling moral case must be unconstitutional. This is a fallacy. The Founder's constitution said a lot of stupid things, and their stupidity never made any provision in it unconstitutional.
For example, the American constitution used to imply that whites can enslave blacks. At some point Americans wanted that to be unconstitutional, so they passed the 13th, 14th, and 15th amendments. The constitution used to imply that women can be denied the vote. When Americans thought that ought to be unconstitutional, they passed the 19th amendment. The constitution gives people a right to hold and bear arms. This may well be a dangerous anachronism, so maybe Americans ought to pass a constitutional amendment repealing it or qualifying it more.
Gay rights are in the same category. It is a good idea to
change the constitution to create a right to gay marriage. It is a bad idea to
reinterpret the constitution to discover it there, when in 220 years of constitutional practice it has never meant that society, in principle, can't proscribe marriage to liaisons it disapproves of. Words have meanings, and the meaning of the words in the American constitution can't be changed after 220 years at the wave of a Supreme Court justices' wand. If you want the constitution to mean something else, you will have to change it the old-fashioned way: by persuading your compatriots that gay marriage is a good idea, then voting. I wish you luck.