Deprogramming generally involves abduction or isolation. The intervention will consist almost entirely of dialogue and questions. Rather than using character assassination, the history of the leader and organization are examined quite objectively, using their own literature and other historical sources, and perhaps any good journalism on the subject (newspaper or magazine articles, books, film documentaries, etc.). The exit-counselor allows the member to challenge the validity of the critical evidence, and is already prepared to further demonstrate the truthfulness of what has been said. The subject matter is not changed until the matter at hand is resolved to some extent, nor does the counselor allow the member to divert the discussion to avoid facing the facts.
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By the end of the third day, enough information will have been discussed and enough dialogue will have ensued that the member will recognize many errors in his own perception of the organization.
If the member has made it through the three days or so, he will not likely return to the organization except in attempt to enlighten others of what he has learned. :wink:
It is necessary to follow up for several reasons:
The emotional ties in the organization (friends) are still very strong at this stage
Loneliness and disillusionment are strong factors causing a desire to go back to the cult
Lingering doubts about their new decision remain for awhile
Confusion and disorientation about the future haunts them
Healing of the ex-REPUBLICAN is an ongoing process, and sometimes takes many years. But they are years well spent when it involves someone we truly love!