Hmm. Maybe he ran, maybe he didn't. Maybe this is their plan to avoid paying you, and she's covering for him?
We need DebraLaw in here.
Eva
This is true. The last time she said he wasn't living there, she was lying, but I honestly don't know. See, my ex is a drunk. He has managed to stay dry for several years now living as a dry drunk. I know he has fallen off the wagon here and there for a short time over the years, but am surprised he did it for as long as he did, so it actually wouldn't surprise me at all if he just went right back to it. I am not saying I believe the devil woman, but I did talk to him the day he was in court on the 16th and he was drunk, so it is possible that he just said "f*** it.
Well, then I guess the next question is...if he's not paying, he's in violation of a court order, so they will issue a warrant for his arrest, no? (I don't know much about this process...)
Yes, but I wish it was as simple as that. Before they issue a warrent, I have to file contempt charges, go back down there to court and if he doesn't show up, then they issue a warrent. Since I can't afford to make the trip again until this time next year, it looks like I'm going to have to wait. In the mean time, I'm going to make a ton of phone calls to see if I can get around going back down there.
Eva wrote:Absolutely...what he said.
I suppose that shackling Montana's ex face down to a bed of nails with razor-bladed barbed wire dipped in scotch bonnet hot sauce and allowing a horny elephant to f*ck him in the a*s while a sleazy lawyer pulled out his teeth one by one with pliers, thereby diverting his attention somewhat from the stinging ants on his hands MIGHT open us up to criminal charges...
But no jury would ever convict us.
Eva honey are you available for out calls? And have you ever done any on camera work? I think I can make us rich.....there's a huge Eastern European porn market just waiting........do you own a bustier? Leather?
He can run but he can't hide....at least not forever.
The wheels of justice do run slow, but they do work, in the end. I'd start the paperwork immediately Montana.
I have a huge case of the Morning-After Stupids (anyone who's drank themselves into oblivion knows what I am talking about) so pardon my stupidity today. :wink:
Montana, I definitly think you should get the ball rolling now. Sounds like the infernal hose beast you call your ex is trying to again get out of his obligation (which is even worse to have to call you children obligations...ahhh...makes me sick....). What a dick.
Isn't he in the Boston area? Why not get Slappy and a few of his buds to collect for you every week?
Don't know Bear... Slappy'd end up blowing the dough at strip bars.
Kristie
True. He's not a very good hider. Yes, a dick he is!
Cav
I'm going to do what I can from her, but if I have to make the trip back down there, it'll have to wait until next year.
Bear
Yeah, he's in the Boston area and I'd love it if Slappy would collect for me, but as you know, Panzade make a good point.
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:Eva wrote:Absolutely...what he said.
I suppose that shackling Montana's ex face down to a bed of nails with razor-bladed barbed wire dipped in scotch bonnet hot sauce and allowing a horny elephant to f*ck him in the a*s while a sleazy lawyer pulled out his teeth one by one with pliers, thereby diverting his attention somewhat from the stinging ants on his hands MIGHT open us up to criminal charges...
But no jury would ever convict us.
Eva honey are you available for out calls? And have you ever done any on camera work? I think I can make us rich.....there's a huge Eastern European porn market just waiting........do you own a bustier? Leather?
Oh yes, I have several bustiers...but no leather ones. How about the gold brocade one with black ribbons? Or the emerald green lace one? Or perhaps I should stick with the standard plunging black satin number? (All true, btw.) Of course, you'll have to invite Cav, Kristie & Montana, too. It took all of us to dream up that scenario. Good one, huh?
A2K Hall Of Fame material Eva
You're making me blush, pan!
hmm...some sort of video....we could sell it off a truck in a back alley...I think we should try and get cav to wear the bustier. Much more interesting that way.
I hurt my thumb somehow...the base joint is swollen and it hurts to bend. I didn't break it and there isn't any visable bruising. But you can see it's swollen. I don't remember doing anything to it.....sprain? I don't like pain. I am a big baby.
i forgot to add my angry comments for the day...
mother f*ker, son of a b**ch! My f**king thumb hurts like a mother f**ker!
There.
I had to bring this thread back because frankly I am sick and tired of hearing people piss and moan about how shitty their marriage or relationship is....so bad it has lead them to cheat....or be cheated on.....or slump into depression....or obsess about the other person.....I can't take it! We all got problems.....but not all of us go out and f*ck the first person we meet. And we don't just leave and go into the other room and pretend the problem doesn't exist. Why do people wait until it is unrecoverable before they seek help? Why do they cheat and then expect sympathy for their bad relationship? At what point do you just say f*ck it....whatever....is this too harsh? Tough sh*t. It makes me want to just type "YOU CAN ONLY BLAME YOURSELF" in most of these threads. I hate people with PMS (Poor Me Syndrom) Damn.
You're right...now i just look at the posts and sigh.
Between the politics and screwed up relationships...it's time to sign off for a while.
ah but why sign off when you could enter into a converstation of wit and banter? stupid threads that make people leave ! grr!
I really like to help people but if I have to hear "I'm unhappy...I married my husband/wife and everything was great but now....and on top of it all I've met someone." I will SCREAM!!!!!!
