Thu 1 Sep, 2016 08:18 am
hi to all, i have had chance to calm down now but i was really mad, yesterday i told my partner that i was going out, i grabbed my phone and left the house, but left the car keys on the table, i got to the car and relised and walked back to the house, as i walked in to the house i could hear noises coming from the living room, so i peaked in to find my partner watching live cams. i asked him what he was doing and he quickly turned it of and looked very sheepish, i now feel like he doesnt want me now, and i feel very insecure, as any body else been through the same thing? and how did you deal with it? this is mainly for the girls to answer tbh.
mommy leaves the house and the kid gets into the cookie jar.
this is mainly for the girls to answer tbh.
I'm a guy (I checked to be sure) but am going to answer anyway.
If this behavior is unacceptable to you, then you need to sit down and have a chat with him about it. If he sees nothing wrong with this behavior, then you have a two choices. Put up with it or end the relationship. Is that something you are willing to do over this? If not, then learn to live with it.
Did it make you feel unwanted and a blow to your self-esteem?