Democrats - Life the way we want you to live it.
Republicans - Life the way you want to live it,
Realistically there is little difference between parties. Both are populated and controlled by people who seek power and re-election as a priority. Both try to teach voters to fear the other party and “in essence” vote for the lesser evil. Both spend more time fund raising for re-election than governing. Both want to rule the country for the benefit of themselves and wealthy donors instead of govern for the good of all people.