@ossobuco,
I'm a retired landscape architect, and was licensed for land design (site design, large or small) and city planning; not a building architect, though I was pretty engaged with building architect colleagues over decades, as well as engineers. A lot of us in the different fields (in my own experience) worked together, and once in a while butt heads. I remember a tussle with a then renown engineering firm re their grading plan for a mutual project. My boss agreed with me. Their boss agreed with me. Zip. But other than that pissant, most of my experience was that we listened to each other and got the reasons why.
For me it was worth it, I'm so glad I studied all that, wouldn't have missed it for the world.
I'd listen, if I were you, re others posting here about what school to pick.