@Robert Gentel,
Robert Gentel wrote:
On a slightly related note I think it would be interesting to see someone start communities for men and women respectively. I wonder what a men only community or women only community would be like.
We may never know because it may be difficult, if not impossible, to ensure that they are strictly male and female respectively.
We think we know the gender of the folks here, but there are still mysteries. JTT may never show up again, but he/she was one who steadfastly refused to reveal his/her gender. There may be other such Mystery Men/Women.
And of course what possible safeguard might be employed to ensure fraud is not committed? A sworn oath; a DNA test?
It's not that anyone would have to be concerned with a woman taking offense at masculine grunts and roars in the
Male's Den, or for that matter a highly sensitive male feeling outrage over the fact that the female members were objectifying men in the
Female's Boudoir as you could unequivocally state at the outset, that no complaints about sexist behavior in either community will be entertained. However, a few imposters of either gender could easily compromise the entire purpose for such communities with their trickery.
How could anyone man write with confidence,
"Springheel Jack, you are a perfect example of male chauvinism and everything that is despicable about the male of the species," if we can't be sure Jack isn't really a Jill? What insight might women members be able to gain from a segregation of the sexes if it is uncertain?
Will you be able to resist the pressed attacks of A2K Amazons who insist that a prohibition of their participation in the
Male's Den is demeaning to them as women and makes them feel unsafe and diminished?
What about a legitimate complaint that women might feel constricted in their discussions within
Sappho's Sanctuary by the fear that a disguised man might take away with him a closely held feminine mystery that generations of women before them have managed to keep a secret from the great coarse brutes that are men?
I just don't think that there is anyway to ensure that only men will frequent the All Male community and only women will join the female counterpart, and therefore as enticing as it may be to gather in a masculine sanctum sanctorum with my A2K brothers and exchange rough humor and manly observations without fear of letting slip the occasional rhetorical equivalent of a fart, I'm afraid that I will have to pass...on the opportunity that is.