@layman,
Suppose a town is 100 miles away and I tell two different guys how to get there, and they leave at the same town. A drives 100 mph, B drives 50 mph. They both call me later to tell me how accurate my estimates of distance (by way of time) were.
A says: You were right, it took me exactly an hour to get here.
B says: You were completely wrong, it took me 2 hours, not 1 hour, to get here.
What do I tell B? Well, there are a number of possibilities, such as:
1. No, it's only been an hour since you left. Your watch must have slowed down.
2. Well, your odometer must be broken if it says you went 100 miles. You've actually gone 200 miles, and you're in a different town than you think.
3. I could give many different combinations of "explanations" which combine supposed instrumental errors in some fashion. I could say, for example: Your watch is slow AND your odometer is off. I won't bother working out a specific example (such as your watch is 10 minutes slow and your odometer is off by x percent), I'm sure you get the idea.
Now, those explanation, weird as they seem, are at least possible. Of course it's also possible that I was simply wrong in assuring B that it was "1 hour away." But since I'm ALWAYS right, let's just say that's not possible.
But suppose B tells me: "Layman, you're plumb fulla ****. I'm not in the wrong town. I'm sitting here in the hotel lobby with A, and he tells me he's been here for an hour, waiting for me."
What can I say now? I know! I tell him that simultaneity is "relative," that's what! So, I say: "No, he didn't get there an hour ago, you both got there at exactly the same. He only thinks he's been there an hour. But he just now got there too. You two just have different concepts of what's "simultaneous," that's all."
He'll buy that!
Won't he?