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Mon 9 Nov, 2015 09:34 pm
alright so most of my post have been about my little sister who is about to be 13, well she has been through loss of our mom, sexual abused, and has been to a lot of funerals in past few years. I am away at college and we webcam all the time, however a concern came to my mind about because different things and reactions that she may be wetting the bed. I want to question her about this but how can I go about doing it that will make it clear im not making fun or trying to cause her any harm? how do you start a conversation like that off?
@Bl08791,
PLEASE stop making new topic threads with your every thought. Be so kind as to pay attention to what you already asked and the ramifications.
@Bl08791,
I really need to know conversation starters and what to say to not make her feel bad
@Bl08791,
You have no idea or evidence that she is wetting the bed so why guess that she is?
Furthermore, many members here have already advised you that she should be seeing a counselor. That is what professionals are for. This problem and the others that have happened in her life is beyond your depth. Your wasting valuable time here that she could be treated. You should verify but that could require permission from her dad as well.
@Bl08791,
even if she is why would you talj about it on here?
@Bl08791,
If you really want to help her then don't hesitate and just do it. Speak with her from your heart. Do it calmly and kindly.
If ever she needs more help then let her see a therapist. She's young and needs guidance so it's very important that she gets the proper amount of care.
@donna downing,
thanks just worried about her.