.... Just want to talk to someone with an openminded heart and a clear head. ...
So basically you are looking to 'befriend' (you'll see why I'm skeptical in a moment) someone, spill your guts to them, hope they'll be nice to you and then move on? Counseling by someone with perhaps no experience in that area, no obligation to maintain confidentiality and who might possibly have an agenda.
With no need to actually listen to that other person's issues.
This is what counselors are trained to do, and it is what they are paid to do. If you impose on someone for all of that, and give pretty much nothing in return, then you will get what you pay for.
I get that there are countries where counseling is a problematic thing to have on one's record. Hence the suggestion of talking online.
So those are your choices. Get counseling if you can. Or release your problem onto the Internet and take your chance on getting decent advice, or on being trolled. Or spend some time and make an actual friend, which means a give and take and that you have to actually, you know, give a damn about them and try to help them, too.
Decide what you are willing to pay. Money, risk, or attention.