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Mon 2 Nov, 2015 11:30 am
I am a man attracted to men's penises. However, I am not attracted to men or ladyboys. I want to give a man oral and anal pleasure, but the whole idea of hugging, kissing, romance and love with a man is not a turn on. I regularly masturbate to gay porn, especially men with impressive erections. After a lifetime of mostly heterosexual experiences I want to try penis worship. How do I approach this? It is not as if I can enter a gay bar, approach a man and say "Excuse me sir I would like to kiss your delightful erection, but not your lips". Any and all advice, suggestions and comments welcome.
Hi
You might think that what you are experiencing is weird or uncommon. In my experience as a gay man what you are describing is not uncommon at all. My simple advice is, if you are married and happily so then be very careful what you get yourself into. But given that you are free to explore a relationship or a casual encounter with someone so long as you explain what you like and do not like most guys will sort out these things just fine.
It's not about what you like and what you do not like - quite simply it is a matter of being up front and honest with a potential mate. My suggestion is to go to a gay website, be honest and upfront with what you want. You could try something like craigslist too. But be careful what you start - you might find that it leads you quite quickly away from the happy relationship that you have already to a whole new world
Cheers