@ossobuco,
yes, i am used to being silent, instead of justifying for myself. but it is just me, real me.
i admit i am a little sensitive. it may be an accident or not. ok, i have two reasons for my doubt,
one is that when i went to shower, he and my roomate were in their living room. then when i am in shower, he came to the bathroom for my roomate. but she still stayed in their room.
the other is the reaction when he found it was me in the bathroom. he was just too calm. it seemed that he was ready to say the words, 'sorry, i had thought it's my gf inside.'
if he is really on purpose to do this, i am disgusted.
i do talked about my doubt on the prior posts.
i am gonna do nothing to anyone, but make life better.